First of all; I have been on this website off and on for several years. The knowledge has been unbelievable. There have been times when you want to yell at it for not getting a straight answer and times you want to yell at it for getting a straight answer. If you have been on longer than 6 months; you know what I am talking about.
My 2014 son has played on some good solid summer teams but was never a top player. We followed the timeline listed on the site as best we could as money would allow. We also had to become honest with ourselves in the last 18 months. At 15u; they all think they are D1 and of the 14 players on his team; 7 have committed to D1 but he isn't one of them. He is still chasing the dream.
He had interest from D2 but his HS and summer coach both said that juco would be best bet to get on field and play early. Being from Texas; my son emailed EVERY juco in Texas, New Mexico, Arkansas, Louisiana, Oklahoma and Kansas and gave them summer schedule and when he was going to a showcase in August. The only showcase our budget would allow. He then got list of every coach at that showcase and emailed every coach thanking them for coming.
He was offered and we took a trip to a certain school last week. He was ready to commit on trip but we advised him to come home and unpack it over the weekend. Last night; the HC called from the school and my son made his commitment. He is excited, dad is on cloud 9 and mom is still crying this morning.
My ineffective unexpert advice for parents and players is:
"There is NO magic formula". My son had a buddy commit as a sophomore in HS to a ACC national power while on a Christmas camp that his family so happen to hear about while on family vacation. Saw another kid who was hitting .250 early in the summer but kept busting his rear end get seen on back to back weekends by a D1 school crush the ball and throw runners out left and right get offered and commit and as his work paid off he has seen other schools come along. Saw a kid have multiple schools after him; get injured and all the top schools back away except for 3 that stuck around and he committed to them and now back to throwing in low 90s and just laughs at the top schools for trying to come back.
My son is not as big, as fast or have as strong of arm as some of his counter parts that are still looking for offers. What he did do; was run from station to station, base to base and dugout to field and back when he got to the ball park. He also; was what certain coaches were looking for at that time. No rhyme, no reason.
With all that said; you have to chase the dream. The dream isn't going to chase you. If your son wants it bad enough, he will find a way. If he doesn't; he will find an excuse.