I'm guessing this could vary quite a bit depending on the school, but for general purposes, what are the minimum (and average) requirements for a baseball player to be considered as a "high academic" recruit or even to attend a "high academic" showcase. Thanks in advance.
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Basically there are 3 tiers for a coach:
- Tier A/1: You get in on your academic merits
- Tier B/2: Admissions requires "coach support"
- Tier C/3: Just not good enough
I believe there's quite a bit of latitude with Tier B/2, but there are only so many a coach can use in that Tier.
The number of "test optional" schools are growing each year, which can help with the SAT/ACT scores.
School profile and class rigor are very important factors. You will need a good number of honors/AP classes, if your HS offers them.
High Academic can mean a range of schools. For most of us that means a school that is very hard to get into and is ranked highly by US News, Princeton Review, etc.
For example, Tufts comes up here often. The admit rate is 14.6 - very low, though there are some that are lower. If you search their website or Google for the term "student profile", there is usually a page for any school that will show you, at the very least, mean SAT and ACT scores. It would be instructive to look up the numbers for some target schools.
At Tufts the mean ACT is 32-35. So if your kid is in that range and has good grades he's definitely a HA kid and a likely recruit if the coach wants him. He might even be able to get in without help. If he's more like 29-30, he might be okay, depending on the level of influence and leeway that the coach has with admissions. Below that, he probably needs to retest.
I think you'll find the term "high academic" gets thrown around a lot. People's definition varies. For HA, I look at what is required to get admitted in as a student (not baseball player as you phrased your question) through the general admissions process...lets call that the "Admissions front door". In my son's experience, the part that varied the most is how the Admissions process worked for the recruited athlete...lets call that the "Admissions back door". Again, my son's recruiting experiences across D1, D1 Ivy, D1 Patriot and D3 HA schools varied tremendously in terms of what influence the coach had with admission or what admissions required of their recruits. Getting back to the question, I'd have to put a metric down of admissions percent for a HA school. I'd say 15% admitted percent as a high water mark for starters. That would be my stake in ground. Others may think differently and I'd like to hear what they have to say.
So, I'd break this question up and look at what it takes (https://nces.ed.gov/collegenavigator/) for the various HA levels and examples I'm throwing at you: Stanford, Duke, Vanderbilt, Richmond, William & Mary, Harvard, Cornell, Lafayette, Amherst, Tufts, Case Western Reserve, Emory, Trinity, etc. After you have a sense of their admission metrics then start asking the hard questions to yourself and the recruiting coach: Do these schools require the same academic metrics as the generally admitted pool of candidates. If not, how much of a recruited athlete discount do they get from the generally admitted pool of candidates. The coaches know how much academic margin they have with Admissions. It is also a good idea to ask about their process and timeline.
As for an HA Showcase, I think there is a lot of leeway as some students have yet to take the SAT or ACT. If your son is an honor roll student, top 15% of his class, with some AP courses. I think that is a good starter, and welcome anybody to tell me different.
A D3 HA coach told my son and me that GPA is the most important qualifier for him, because by at or near the end of Jr year (when D3 HAs get serious about recruiting), GPA is essentially set and can't change significantly; but a student can always re-take the ACT or SAT. (This was at a school with very high grade and test score averages, and one that does not bend those much at all for athletes, so take that into consideration.)
When my son attended HF, there were plenty of schools like Fenway listed, but also a lot that were more like Skidmore: 29% admit rate. Mean ACT: 29. BTW the Skidmore coach is a great guy and that's a beautiful campus.
I agree that at Headfirst there are definitely some schools whose admissions rates are around 30% (and higher), SAT average around 1250, GPA 3.7. There's a reasonably wide range. An easy way to check is to look at the list of schools that will be at Headfirst (they are listed on their website). Google the name of the school + prepscholar, you will get listings of the school's average GPA, SAT/ACT, and admissions rate.
...I'd have to put a metric down of admissions percent for a HA school. I'd say 15% admitted percent as a high water mark for starters. That would be my stake in ground. Others may think differently and I'd like to hear what they have to say.
Son's school was one of the HAs that Fenwaysouth listed in his post, but the acceptance rate is MUCH higher than 15%, mostly because it is a known backup school to the Ivys. Keep that in mind. Many of it's baseball players got in to an Ivy, or applied.
In my son's case, baseball may have gotten him in to a school that he may not have gotten in to on his own. We will never know. But, once you get in, even with the coach's help, YOU NEED TO MAKE THE GRADES TO STAY THERE. (Son did, thank goodness).
If you are teetering and your son has some good metrics, go for it. You can make final decisions on schools after an offer is made.
There are some good parameters here to give you a general range of what gets a kid in the discussion of being admissible to HA schools. As others indicated, admission rates vary widely even among schools that are considered HA, but test scores and GPA are the criteria that the coaches will consider as the first factors in deciding if a kid should be recruited at a HA school. One HA D3 coach told us he went through a showcase roster that listed the kids academic scores they reported on their application and then crossed off all kids he knew would be excluded from admission so he wouldn't waste time watching them.
Rest assured, if a coach is sincerely interested in your son at a HA school, he will ask your son to send him a copy of his transcripts, test scores and Senior year schedule. I highly recommend those attending HeadFirst or any other academic showcase to bring envelopes with those docs sealed in it ready to hand a coach if he shows interest and starts asking questions about academics. Almost all of my 2017's interested coaches would run those documents through Admissions for "pre-reads" and then those that got through followed-up and those that didn't, either he never heard from them again or he got a "no thanks" reply. I was surprised he got through some tougher schools and got rejected by others I thought wouldn't be as tough, so you never know.
Finally, if your son is on the margin with the test scores, have him retake it and see if he can get an improvement. Going up even 2 points on the ACT can make a huge difference, especially in terms of any academic money he can get.
"Finally, if your son is on the margin with the test scores, have him retake it and see if he can get an improvement. Going up even 2 points on the ACT can make a huge difference, especially in terms of any academic money he can get. "
For the vast majority of HS players, this advice is more valuable in dollar terms than any baseball advice on this site! We paid for an SAT/ACT tutor that helped my son increase his scores considerably. The additional academic scholarship money received as a result more than made up for the tutor fees and test fees. Sorry not the OP's question, but this advice bears repeating and "shouted from the mountaintops" in the context of discussing HAs - continue to work on and re-take the SAT/ACT and if possible, use a tutor or test prep service. Can I get an Amen?
In a social situation I crossed paths with the coach of a ranked HA D3. My son was already playing college ball. But I’m always curious to become aware of different situations.
The school is considered very challenging academically. The coach told me has grease with admissions for baseball. But only for six players per admissions year. He asks his six prime recruits to apply ED so he knows who’s serious. He doesn’t want to waste a slot sliding a kid through to have him decide to go somewhere else. Their GPA and SAT/ACT still have to be reasonably high.
Back when my son was in high school I was chatting with some Duke parents at a game. I mentioned one of the neighborhood kids was playing basketball for Duke. There was an instant chorus of “Baseball doesn’t have the same recruiting guidelines.” That was before “Who?”
Attend games. Ask questions. Most people love giving advice. Most parents love talking about their kids. Everywhere I went I asked, “How did your son happen to choose Whatsamatta U over his other options.” Then shut up and listen. You will walk away with a lot of information.
k there is a lot of leeway as some students have yet to take the SAT or ACT. If your son is an honor roll student, top 15% of his class, with some AP courses. I think that is a good starter, and welcome anybody to tell me different.
Dirtbag30 posted:fenwaysouth posted:
Showcasing, travel ball and instruction has become such an industry I question how much of it is trying to separate parents from their money. I’m guessing there are a lot of former baseball players now selling baseball rather than insurance. Even Al Bundy would be connected to the sports industry now.
Good information shared above. Since RJM mentioned Duke, HC Pollard told me directly he is quite adamant of needing a min 26 ACT to play for his program. He's found good smart players which led them to the super regionals this year. Power Conference high level skills and talent obviously required.
Friend's kid was offered by Northwestern and the RC/HC seem to be dialed in on at least a 28.
Another friends kid is being recruited by Penn, RC said his 27 ACT will suffice.
Two years ago son talked with Johns Hopkins RC he said they wanted a min 32 ACT to be able to support through admissions. (I think their middle 50 percentile of accepted ACT scores is 33-35). HA D3's have less pull with admissions. Competitive HA's require ED applications in order for the coaches to support through admissions.
If the OP's son had a 24/25 on the ACT, get some tutoring and retest. As mentioned above there is room for a few points increase. Finishing with a 27 ACT puts your son in the market for Ivy's other than HPY. HPY have some 29 ACT kids, but have an average 31 ACT for their roster (using Yale RC Frawley as a reference)
Plenty of other HA D3's like Dennison are great colleges but have lower ACT averages. Some of them have access to other money besides need based grants.
Service Academy's need at least a 28 ACT with a strong curriculum GPA, and no less than a 25 ACT on any one ACT section.
If OP's son is an academic fit for xyz colleges who will be attending the HF or SB showcases, does he think he has the baseball talent to match? Always nice to know where your son's metrics are prior to going to these high profile showcases. The coaches attending use the testing results as a filter with whom they'll pay attention to over the weekend. Velo's, 60 time, ACT score's reduce the number of kids they'll pay attention to....
Good information shared above. Since RJM mentioned Duke, HC Pollard told me directly he is quite adamant of needing a min 26 ACT to play for his program.
Another friends kid is being recruited by Penn, RC said his 27 ACT will suffice.
For those who may not realize: There is a big benefit at many of these schools to being a baseball player, even if no athletic scholarship money is in the mix. To take the two examples above, the Prepscholar web site says the Duke ACT mean is 33 and the 25th percentile score is 31. At Penn the corresponding scores are 33 and 32. A non-athlete applying to those schools with a 26 or 27 ACT has essentially zero chance of admission unless he has something else extraordinary going for him (a building on campus named after a grandparent, for instance). And non-athlete applicants with even 35s and 36s, can't count on being accepted-their odds still are much less than 50%.
From another angle: A 33 ACT score puts a student in roughly the 98th percentile. A 26 would be approximately in the 82d percentile--still a very good score, but not one that gets an applicant close at the schools Gov mentions.
So a student can use baseball to help get himself in the door at a school he otherwise might not be able to attend. With reasonable diligence and effort, a kid with a 27 ACT absolutely can graduate from Duke or Penn and do well--but there are so many applicants that few get the opportunity. (Both schools accept about 1 in 10 kids who apply.)
If you are interested in college outside of your local region, you have to participate in nationwide recruiting events. That goes for top-level D1 schools, and for top-level High Academic schools. These high-academic showcases are worth it if you are interested in colleges outside of your local area, they are the best way to get in front of a lot of schools at once, cheaper than travelling around the country to a lot of individual camps. If you want to stay closer to home, then local showcases like PBR, camps at individual schools, or working local contacts, makes a lot more sense.
Ivy's do not give academic money. I didn't think any truly HA school did (since most all applicants are top-shelf anyway). I have seen instances where middle-of-the-pack schools offered substantial academic money to lure top students.
Smitty28 is correct that the elite of the elite, like the Ivy's and Stanford do not give academic money (just need based). But there are plenty of other higher academic schools that have various ways of providing academic-related money to high scoring students. Curiously, there may be some athletes at these schools who found such benefits pointed out to them through their recruiting discussions. So be sure to ask the coach and financial office if you think you might qualify.
To answer the OP's very general question with a very general answer, a 3.3 GPA and a 28 ACT or SAT equivalent. If you have outstanding baseball talent some HA D1's will go lower.
If you are an average baseball talent I would like to go to HF with a min 30 ACT and 3.5 GPA. HS course rigor is a whole different question, but HC's and RC's usually leave that up to admissions.
Chico Escuela posted:Gov posted:
Another friends kid is being recruited by Penn, RC said his 27 ACT will suffice.
In our experience, the sooner you can secure a solid SAT or ACT score the better. For the Junior Fall Classic, a premier recruiting event, the minimum to qualify for Academic Game Try-Outs is 3.7 GPA or 27 ACT or 1200 SAT. So I think those are good gauges. Most of the HA coaches whom my son interacted with were primarily interested in weighted GPA because they want to see a level of rigor (honors/AP/IB).
There are some truly test-optional HA schools including at least 2 in the NESCAC, so I would not let a low ACT preclude a kid from attending HF or Showball as long as the GPA is good. As for the schools requiring scores, my son was told 26 was the cutoff for some schools, 28 for others, and 30 for some.
A good question, but I think every student has to address his situation individually. You need to talk with coaches and schools about graduation rates, resources, expectations... Some schools provide tutoring and other academic support specifically for athletes. So far as I know, the schools I would consider true HAs do not--but most of those schools make quite a lot of tutoring and other kinds of support freely available to all students. (It's also true that there is no one definition of "High Academic School," so it's easy to end up comparing apples and oranges when discussing what "HA" institutions do.)
Similarly, the schools I'd call true HA generally don't limit what players may choose as a major. At a Johns Hopkins or Dartmouth you'll find plenty of pre-meds and engineers on any sports roster.
My bottom line is that many kids with 28 ACTs and 3.7 GPAs can succeed at top-tier colleges if they have the right mind set. These schools openly state that they every year they could fill their freshman classes many times over with highly qualified students. Even for kids with perfect grades and test scores, to some extent getting in is a roll of the dice among others with qualifications that are just as good. Many factors are beyond an applicant's control: Are they looking for students from your state? Have they already admitted 4 others from your high school during ED and want to get admits from other institutions? Particularly at the top schools, admissions is a black box: You need certain qualifications to get into the pool, but from there you really can't predict who will be selected. I think it's a myth to assume that the kids who enroll are necessarily going to perform better in the college classroom than those who aren't accepted (and admissions staff generally don't make that claim).
So if your son is admitted with a 27 or 28 ACT and ends up sitting in a room with 40 other kids who earned 34 or higher, can he compete? IMO it depends on how motivated your kid is, also on whether he just isn't great at standardized tests, how good his high school preparation was, etc. I went to an Ivy and I firmly believe that getting admitted is the hardest part. Once you are in, if you put in the work you will not fail out. And grades at top schools tend to be As and Bs--not many profs award Cs, Ds or Fs. (There are schools that are exceptions to this rule... Again, individual circumstances vary.) At Harvard, for example, the average GPA of the 2016 graduating class was 3.65 and the median was 3.70 (yes, on a 4-point scale). These schools are not using a grading distribution where the middle 40% get Cs and 10% fail out.
That leaves the question of whether a person is better off graduating with a 3.3 average from a HA or 3.8 from a "lesser" school. Again, I'd say it depends on the individual and his circumstances.
Sorry for the long answer to say "it depends." But I do think there is no one-size-fits-all way to approach this.
There aren't any classes geared towards more academically gifted students unless you're in an honors program at the college. The acceptance rates are kept low to keep the schools full of elite students and does not have as much to do with how hard it is once you're there. The difference between a student with a 27 and a 31 or a 32 and a 34 isn't that much of a difference, if at all. I'm sure there are plenty of students with a 24/25 that can manage perfectly fine at plenty of these schools, but they would never get thru the gates. The same way there are kids with 35s who won't last a full year.
These small D3s aren't just taking dummies so they can win a few more games, they're taking perfectly capable kids who might not have got thru admissions without some help. For the most part many of these schools have very tough admissions, but not many notable programs once you're in. There are plenty of publics that aren't considered HA that are ranked much higher than some of these schools, especially in particular programs. Chem lab is the same at Party School U as it is at a NESCAC.
If the player is struggling with classes and staying eligible, he most likely would have had the same problems elsewhere. Usually a matter of major more than it is the school.
Good input on responses to this question so far but I thought I'd add my two cents. My 2019 had 3.6 GPA (with a rigorous schedule), a 31 ACT and, after touring Kenyon, Case, Middlebury, Trinity, Wesleyan, and Tufts, made a comment to me that he didn't want to be the "dumbest" one on campus. I thought that was interesting and a pretty good point, though he likely could have gotten in the door to most of these. I was in that boat at his age, having barely gotten into my #1 school of choice, and it was a rude awakening once I got there. These schools ended up all being well out of our price range having not qualified for any need-based financial aid, and merit awards coming in at the most basic level, so the problem took care of itself and he's now bound for what I would call a tier down from these academically but still playing baseball at a very good school in a top D3 conference.
tequila posted:KLL posted:
Good input on responses to this question so far but I thought I'd add my two cents. My 2019 had 3.6 GPA (with a rigorous schedule), a 31 ACT and, after touring Kenyon, Case, Middlebury, Trinity, Wesleyan, and Tufts, made a comment to me that he didn't want to be the "dumbest" one on campus. I thought that was interesting and a pretty good point, though he likely could have gotten in the door to most of these. I was in that boat at his age, having barely gotten into my #1 school of choice, and it was a rude awakening once I got there. These schools ended up all being well out of our price having not qualified for any need-based financial aid, and merit awards coming in at the most basic level, so the problem took care of itself and he's now bound for what I would call a tier down from these academically but still playing baseball at a very good school in a top D3 conference.
Agreed -- good responses, my two cents is that my kid had a roughly the same HS academics and scores as yours, but did go to a school in the same tier you mentioned. After two years, he's not an academic all american or on the deans list, but he's taking very difficult courses with intense work loads, and he's doing fine with a respectable GPA. As for being the dumbest kid on campus, he'd probably say that's the LAX team. JK - they don't have LAX.
If a kid is willing to work hard and can learn time management, he's well on the way.
I’ve sat on selection committees for all the Service Academies and we look for the min ACT combined with the absolute strongest weighted GPA reflecting a strong curriculum w AP/H classes. That tells us the classroom work ethic and discipline of the student.
Ive seen plenty of 28-30 ACT kids who have a stronger weighted GPA than a 32-33 ACT kid. We’ll take the 30 ACT kid over the 33 ACT kid in this case. Doing well and staying in a Service Academy is difficult. Limited sleep, limited free time, regimented mandatory activities every day after school...it takes a disciplined kid with strong study skills to survive.
Threshold ACT levels filter us to kids to be looked at closer, then weighted GPA will suggest if the kid has the chops to succeed at the school.
Just a reference to HA’s......
tequila posted:KLL posted:
I think this raises an important issue (and is another factor that will vary for different individuals). I see elite college admissions as having so many back and side doors that no one should feel they don't belong if their test scores or grades are a little low; but I get it. Choosing a school where you don't feel comfortable just because that school is "better" according to some ranking or other isn't necessarily a good idea. (I also have seen kids who were the biggest academic fish in their HS ponds have a really hard time coping with being ordinary, or worse, students at a very selective college. The world is larger than most of realize in high school...)
For the OP, since your son is a RHP, this post may be helpful:
Zoom 2020 posted:
My understanding is that D3 baseball teams don't have roster size limits so there aren't really "official slots" to speak of. The coaches have a recruiting board of course, and I'm sure they have a number at each position that they're shooting for, but admission at HA D3 schools is completely at the discretion of the admissions office.
Of course each school's admission criteria and HC's clout with the admission office varies. My son did encounter a situation with a HA engineering school in the Midwest where the school got in trouble with the NCAA for having "too much" coach influence in admissions. In that case, that coach was really looking for kids who were so strong academically that he would not have to worry about them getting through admissions. So for that HA, a kid with really strong credentials is going to be a huge preference for the coach. Of course, then the conversations turns to the coach pushing for the Early Decision application, which was my son was never going to do (too many uncertainties in his search and he did not want to be bound by ED).
I would never worry about a kid being so strong academically to not need the coach's support. A coach should at least run the academic credentials (transcript, test results) through admissions for a "pre-read" and that way the student knows the coach is sincerely interested and both the student and coach can get a non-binding but pretty solid read on his admission chances. A positive read and then the coach can talk specifics about how firm the roster spot is.
tequila posted:Zoom 2020 posted:
IMO, telling a kid to just apply and trust he will be admitted would be a pretty clear signal that a coach wasn't very interested. Even for a recruit with perfect academic credentials, if a coach wants the player, I'd expect an offer for an admissions pre-read for ED admission. There must be some limit on the number of recruits a coach can use this process for (I think D3 HA schools vary widely on this). But if a coach wants a player, I don't think he'd say "you can just apply on your own."
It really is true that at elite HA schools, there is no such thing as having scores and grades so good that admission is guaranteed. One source reports that "Harvard rejects one in four students with perfect SAT scores. The University of Pennsylvania and Duke University reject three out of five high school valedictorians." ( https://on.mktw.net/31vZgHL ) At top academic D3s, the hurdles are similarly high. If your son wants to attend a (very) HA school, the pre-read/ED process has serious value.
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Thanks for all the responses, agree that pre-read is essential. But if pre-read is positive, does that guarantee eventual admission without coach using a "slot"? In Ivy League, at least the "likely letter" is essentially a guarantee of admissions, but D3s don't give likely letters to my knowledge.
Zoom 2020 posted:
I haven’t heard of D3s actually issuing likely letters (although some may). But likely letters aren’t binding in any event. I’d feel just as confident relying on an email from a baseball coach telling me my pre-read was positive and assuring me that I’d be accepted if I apply ED (and keep my grades up, don’t get arrested, etc.). That’s essentially a likely letter in email form.
But maybe I’m naive.
A few D3s do give likely letters, but, as noted, it's not a guarantee. This is why the whole thing is so complicated to understand.
D3 schools have no roster limits. And "high academic," even if you start with an average SAT score of, say, 1250, covers a very wide range in terms of admissions percentages; anywhere from 7% to 50+%. (Chapman, who just won the D3 World Series, goes to Headfirst). Some D3 coaches (at all levels of selectivity) keep their rosters at 30-35; some (again at all levels) will put 50+ kids on the roster (although most don't play much, or get cut, or they have a jv team, or something). Some D3 HAs have fixed numbers of slots/likely letters, some have "tips" or can put a player on a list they give to admissions, some have no influence. Does your player want to be an active player, or have a shot at sitting on the bench? Do you want academic merit money?
So, at every school, you have to ask the exact very specific questions that you are asking here, and ask exactly how their admissions works, and then try to figure it out, before the Early Decision deadline. It will make you crazy. The only upside is that the HA D3 coaches themselves know all this, and are playing with the same variables as the recruits.
Hijacking the thread a bit (but this doesn't seem worth a separate post): Did anyone encounter what we used to call "exploding offers" from HA D3s? That is, did a coach say "you have to get back to me in X weeks or I'm going to move on to a different candidate"? My son is just starting to visit schools and has one offer so far (D3, very good school and solid baseball program). He's very happy about that, but says he wants to see more before he makes any decisions. That coach did not mention any sort of time limit. How long can a player sit on an offer, given no scholarships or roster limits in play?
Re: if S gets in will he be ok academically.
The highest of HAs graduate something like 92+% of their class IN FOUR YEARS and 96+% in six years. Those numbers tell the story; compare those numbers to lower academic tier colleges.
If a kid is good enough to have the academics and scores while developing his baseball skills to the highest level, he has earned his slot in an incoming class - by proving his devotion to an EC AND succeeding in academics. (As virtually every other kid.)
The Ivies DO NOT PROVIDE UNIQUE ACADEMIC ASSISTANCE to athletes; but the assistance available to all students is impressive: office hours, peer tutors, writing assistance, TA tutoring, occupational help- it's all there if the student seeks it out. Moreover, if for example, a kid isn't/doesn't want a math heavy major (e.g., Economics has become a math heavy major), history and Poli sci seem to attract many athletes. So, my answer is the kid will be fine if he simply continues his HS track record.
I submit, however, that the opportunities which await these kids dwarfs the risk that a kid goes off the rails and flunks out. (Which can happen anywhere.)
S was the recruited athlete, D got in on her own (with a set of very powerful ECs). Both were over the middle of the admitting class in scores and grades. S graduated dead middle in Econ; D a bit better as a ChemE. During the seven class years I knew Ss teammates, all remained eligible, all graduated on time (less two pro players who took an additional semester to finish), one left (out of 56ish recruits) due to MH issues.
But, the job opportunities; let me repeat: but, the job opportunities! Summer internships all over the world (or summer ball for those inclined), employment opportunities all over the world. Doesn't mean you can't return to your home town, but it means you can leave for anywhere you want.
For parents worrying about the kid being overmatched academically, the kids take some fluff courses (which actually can be fun); S took astronomy and History of Coinage, for example. He also wrote an original junior paper and an original senior thesis (as did every student) in economics. Prospective employers loved them and he learned how to do original research, communicate both in writing and orally, and apply his skills in the real world; he wasn't unique - every kid did it.
In another thread, I wrote about his teammates - five years after graduation. Look up that thread; as far as I can tell every Ivy is as impressive.
I'll leave with this moral: if a kid can leverage hs baseball into an Ivy do it; no baseball dreams are diminished and he gets a nice headstart in the job world.
Re Chico's question about the deadlines, yes my 2017 got a few of those exploding offers from D3s when he was being considered as a catcher (he was a two-way and wound up as a PO in college).
One coach was pretty honest about it and did not do the really hard sell--just said he only had room to add one catcher so if one of them goes Early Decision, they would have the slot. Then my son could be considered among the pitchers. I get that--a team can only have so many catchers.
But another coach was really egotistical about it acting as if he could not understand why my son would not go ED if he wanted him on the roster. I played bad cop and told every coach until my son heard from the UC schools, he was not making any decision about private schools that are $50K and up. Most I would say were pretty realistic and would admit there were a number of kids where there was mutual interest but all things being equal, they would prefer my son, so please keep in touch.
The D3s are in a really tough situation in most cases for kids who do not qualify for need-based assistance. Some of the HAs have no academic money to offer, so it is really hard to recruit when you have to tell a kid and his parents that it will be well over $200K if you want to play baseball here for 4 years. The coach at one SoCal HA admitted his team is made up entirely of really well-off kids who could afford the full tuition and then some low income kids paying almost nothing. No players in between because of the lack of athletic and academic money. Sad but true reality at many of these HA D3s.