quote:Originally posted by play baseball:
Oooh, ClevelandDad! Just saw your post! Wish I had thought of saying it like you did!!!!
quote:Originally posted by ClevelandDad:
Wrong. I wish I would have thought of saying it like you did playbaseball![]()
Ok...Ok... the two of you compromise!
Indeed Nitric.
First semester freshman year, my son took 17 hours including 2 sciences, each with a lab. Could have been all right...if he
I argue the toughest of all semesters is the first one by incoming freshman. More students have done harm to their GPA in
lived at home like most of the other students. But he lived far away from home. He is our oldest, meaning we hadn't
this semester than any other one. Many spend the rest of their college careers trying to make up for it.
experienced a child going to college and didn't know what to expect. ! Add to the class and lab schedule a work-study
If there ever was an argument to reduce the course load, it would be the first semester in my mind. First learn to do well
schedule and baseball practice and adjusting to being independent with no one forcing him to study (there was no mandatory
in school and then learn to increase the load IF necessary. Throwing cost issues and institutional pressures aside, what
study table provided and no other study support) and we had a recipe for near disaster. He has turned it around but we
difference does it make in the grand scheme of things if a student took 8 or 10 semesters to graduate? One's resume never
learned for our subsequent children that being a stellar high school student doesn't always make the jump to college.
states how many semesters it took to graduate but they almost always state what a student's GPA is (assuming the GPA is
Living away from home in perhaps a different culture can be quite an adjustment. Better to lighten up the first semester
decent).
to adjust and do well than to load it up--only to drop a class or not do as well as you'd like... anyway, that is what we
Obviously, some students can handle a large work load, athletics, and perform admirably in the classroom. I think for
learned for our family.
many, the pressures of a new life, being away from home, new responsibilities, and athletics can be moderated by choosing a reasonable work load which can facilitate success down the road.
Well said...both of you!
