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Seeing as how Thanksgiving is just a couple of days away, I thought I'd take the opportunity to say that I'm thankful for this forum and the experience, knowledge, and spirit of generosity and caring that permeates it.

(In total contrast, there's a local blog that I check out during the season and it's remarkable how nasty some of the posts can get and how willfully ignorant some of the people posting stuff are.)

Thanks, High School Baseball Web!
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Well said Slotty!

I'm thankful everyday for the blessings I've been bestowed, but for sure the baseball gifts!

Having had the opportunity to raise a son, Coach him and his friends in the best sport in the world, has brought tremendous happiness to me and my family. The hours we have spent on the field, together, are many of my most treasured memories!

I'm so thankful for the impact that sports have had on my son and how they have shaped his growth, character and integrity!

I'm a very luck baseball Dad in that it's still on-going for me and I hope to thoroughly enjoy every second of it!
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(In total contrast, there's a local blog that I check out during the season and it's remarkable how nasty some of the posts can get and how willfully ignorant some of the people posting stuff are.)



I have a feeling I know exactly what blog you're talking about and if it is the one I think it is, you couldn't be more right.
There are tons of things I'm thankful for...but at the top of my list...

I am thankful for my parents. Both have departed, but they were GREAT parents and I just wish I had told them more often and more clearly how much I appreciated them.

If you're on the younger side on this forum, take a minute or two to tell your parents this weekend what they've meant to you. As a soon-to-be grandparent...it IS...THE best gift you can give to your parents this coming Holiday season. Wink
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Health, family, and seatbelts.

We had a scare a couple Fridays ago when my middle son was a passenger in a car accident. All 4 boys walked away from it without serious injury because of seatbelts. There is not much worse than getting a call that a family member is in an ambulance on the way to the emergency room. This Thankgiving will be special.
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I am thankful for our baseball families. Three years ago, when I was sick, bald and fighting for my life, our baseball family stepped up to the plate. I had meals at my back door, rides for all three kids to practice, and the best seat in the house when I could get to their games. Baseball gave my boys something to focus on besides me, and it gave them an outlet to be a kid for awhile. I am in remission now, but I will forever be grateful for the love and support. This senior season for my oldest boy will probably be his last on a field, and I know I will cherish every game. I will be the one at the field with a smile, win or lose, because I am still here to be at his game.
I am thankful for my family obviously, but this year I am particularly thankful for my health. I took it for granted for too many years and I paid a pretty steep price for that with heart surgery earlier this year.

I received many notes of encouragement from the fine community we have here and I believe I have righted the ship. Now love to workout, lift weights, eat the rights foods, and most importantly, I no longer take things for granted. I feel better than I have in years and thank all here who have encouraged me.

A happy thanksgiving indeed!

PS - I do intend to eat heartily on Thanksgiving however Big Grin
I am especially thankful this year for the doctors working at a hospital on an August evening that saved the life of Brent Alwine following a horrific car accident. Brent is an assistant coach at Western Michigan University and just a wonderful youg man. According to Head Coach Billy Gernon, Brent was due to see the team for the first time today and he is optimistic that Brent will return to his coaching staff in the early part of 2012. He lost sight in his right eye, but his recovery has truly been a miracle. Many thanks for all the prayers that have been sent his way.
after what has happened tto me over the last 15 months *at least 4 strokes thatwe know of* amhankful to theEMTS,thehospital trauma and ICU staffs as well as the nursing and physical therapy staff at the rehab center and most importantly my fabulous wife, she has been a tower of strength thru this entire adventure,from being told that Iwould never walk again to now walking with a walker, a cane is a few weeks away, Icannot be thankful enough
This year is the first year i've really put thought into this. there are sooo many things.( before i go any further don't feel sorry for my plight it is just part of the plan.) but about 2 months ago i was diagnosed with mesothelioma. a very rare,difficult to beat cancer. we are fortunate to live an hour away from the best Dr. in the world for this. so very thankful.

My family has been tremendous,my wife deserves a medal after 31 yrs with me. now this? God bless her.

I have a network of friends that is much larger than i ever knew.again thankful. my heart goes out to people who fall ill, it isn't easy on anyone and your never ready for it.your all in my prayers.


I don't have any great insight into death, but I've learned something about life. It takes courage to get through life. The courage of doctors and nurses who can work magic with their hands, the courage of those keeping a lonely vigil at the bedside of a loved one. The courage of the ill, fighting with everything they have, not just to cheat death, but to live.

I have a long road ahead, I've started chemotherapy. And now I live in a different world than most of you. The world of cancer. In my world now, when you meet another patient, you don't ask, "What do you do?" Or, "where are you from?" You ask, "What do you have?" And, "What are you taking?"

Unfortunately, it's a much bigger world than you might think, because one way or another, cancer touches all of us. I'm not spending my time thinking why me, though. I don't have the time. I think about the old saying, "We aren't given the burdens we deserve, we're given the burdens we can bear." I have work to do, because I'm going to fight like hell. for the chance to do that i'm very thankful.

reach over and hug your family, at the end of the day that's our wealth.


Happy Thanksgiving.
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20dad,
I am thankful I took a minute, clicked on the site and read your powerful post which, as you always do, is so clearly from your heart.
I hope you don't mind if I offer you a hug from afar...as one of our family.


I offer the hug too. About 6 weeks ago it was discovered that my brother has throat cancer, he has just began his chemo and radiation, it hit me very hard the day he told me.

20dad, your post took my breathe away, as I also felt that you have been a part of my family.

It's been a tough year for our family, but not as tough has some of you have had.

God bless all of you that have the courage to come forward and speak out. We are all here for you.
Cancer does not discriminate, it can hit anyone, at anytime. I lost a good friend to Throat Cancer three years ago this coming February. He was a typical guy that didn't want to see the doctor, and thought the tickle in his throat was simply a cold that was hanging around too long. He didn't smoke, so Cancer was the last thing from his mind. He was only 52 when he passed away.

My dad called me last month after leaving his doctor's office in the morning. I was in a meeting, and said I'd get back to him shortly. I forgot to call him, but finally followed up later that evening. Unbeknownst to me, he was calling to inform me that he'd been diagnosed with Prostate Cancer, and his doctor suggested that I follow up with my physician, as my risk had now increased due to his diagnosis. Again, a typical guy that probably wouldn't have gone to the doctor if it hadn't been for a couple of his retired buddies. They had gone to breakfast one morning, and somehow the "Going Problem" came up in the conversation. My dad's neighbor had been diagnosed with Prostate Cancer three months earlier and stated that my dad's symptoms were close to his. Well, he listened to his neighbor's advice and visited his doctor. Typical blood tests were run, and he was later referred to a Urologist that confirmed the inevitable. He is 65 and in good spirits, but knows that he has a battle in front of him that can be won.

My wife and I own an insurance agency. She recently handled the insurance on a good friend from high school that she hadn't seen since their ten year reunion nearly fourteen years ago. They talked last week, and her good friend was diagnosed with Breast Cancer two weeks ago.

After reading TRhit's post regarding his multiple strokes over the last year, and his determination to continue to get stronger, it reminded me of my grandpa's fight after his stroke years ago. I took him to nearly all of his appointments for Physical and Speech Therapy. It was hard work and he went through some difficult times, so I have tremendous respect for TRhit and I appreciate that he's still on here contributing...although I miss some of the One on One battles that he and TPM used to have on here. Wink

I truly hope the best for TPM's brother, 20dad, and pink lady as they fight this dreaded disease. I want to read on here a couple weeks from now that TRhit has thrown away his walker and is getting around with a cane. And I like hearing that CD feels the best he's felt in many years after major heart surgery!

What I'm trying to say as I ramble on, I'm thankful for my family first and foremost. I'm thankful for my health. I'm thankful that although the economy has affected my business, I still have a steady income and plenty to be grateful for. Lastly...I'm thankful for my friends; those that have been in my life for many years, and those that I've befriended here on the HSBBWeb.

Happy Thanksgiving!!!
For my parents who have both passed away for bringing me in to this world and molding me to the person I am today... I wished you were still here to watch your grandson play.

For my wife for all the love and always being on my side trough all the ups and downs..

For my son who is growing up to be a man and getting ready to start on his own path for allowing me to be his father,coach,friend...Thanks to all the coaches who has showed interest in giving him a chance to play at the next level...

For my sister for showing me the strength in battling breast cancer and surviving it for the last 19 years ( Thanks for being a 2nd mom to me )

For my line of work for allowing me to help and make a small difference in peoples lives...20dad, MIRACLES DO STILL HAPPEN!

For my dogs Lucky and Cotton( who I will see in the rainbrow bridge ) for loving me unconditionally...

For all my friends especially my hsbbweb friends for all the great advice, great stories you have shared..for always being willing to lend a helping hand...

And lastly for some Guy up above for guiding all of us while we are still in this world and hopefully be up there when the time comes...

Happy Thanksgiving !
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Wow. I was planning to post a simple Happy Thanksgiving to everyone, but I am so moved... moved to tears.

20dad,

You are such a special person. Your kindness over the years has been exceptional... I can only imagine that you are the same type of person in "real life" that you have been with your generosity to me and to all of the members of this site. I am praying for you and your family.

To everyone else who shared stories, thank you for these touching reminders of what is important and what we can all be thankful for.

I am thankful for my two healthy grown-up sons, and especially thankful that the oldest has recently moved back to our home state, so that both of them are here at our house today to share Thanksgiving dinner.

God Bless you all, and Happy Thanksgiving!

Julie
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20dad I will be praying for you. You know some people live more in a day than others live in a life time. I have never feared death. I have often feared not living. Live 20dad. Live every second, minute, day of your life. From your posts over the years I am sure that is exactly what you have been doing and will continue to do.

There was a thread started a few years back that asked the question "can your website friends really be friends?" Well all I know is there are many here I have never met I consider my dear friends. People who if they called me and needed something I would be there for them. And I feel the same would be returned to me. If thats not a friend I don't know what is.

I am thankful for Gods Grace. For his love. For his peace that only he can give. He is my rock. God makes no mistakes. He has a plan for every life. In God I trust. Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.
I would like to add one more thing that is totally related to my baseball lfe. there were two gentlemen, both now passed that formed my baseball mind and life; my dad who was a semipro catcher and an uncanny student of the game. the other gentleman was JOHN GENTILE a dodger scout who had played in the Dodger farm system up to montreal at AAA-- HE PLAYED WITH CHUCK CONNORS AND JACKIE ROBINSON---COULD NOT ASK FOR TWO\MENTORS JOHN CAME UP SOME 40 YEARS LATER TO EVALUATE MY SON AND TALK TO HIM
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Wow. What a thread.

I, too, am moved to tears. What stories, what courage. What inspiration.

20dad, you have a way with words, and you have never, ever shied away from telling us your family's troubles. God bless you and your family. We're praying for you. You are one in a million.

Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa can be website friends. You betcha. I am very thankful for all of you. I don't have luxury/ability to be on here like I used to be, but I always feel welcome, like old friends are. Thank you.

In addition to being thankful for my family of 4 great children who have turned out to be kind and considerate young adults, I am especially thankful for my husband who takes very excellent care of my mother full time. It isn't easy, in fact, I can't do it. He does, though, with love and without complaining, although she makes it difficult. This new line of work is quite a departure from what he used to do, but this darned economy. I am grateful to my children for stepping up to "Gramma sit" so that he can leave the house once in a while. My three siblings (who all live in the area) don't ever come to visit her. I am grateful that my children have learned to not abandon the elderly. Karma?

Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

p.s.--TR, that's great news. We're pulling for you to use that cane real soon!
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I'm thankful for the game of baseball and the impact it has had on my life. This week I was able to throw with my dad for the first time in a long time, due to shoulder surgery, and it was easily one of the happiest moments of my recovery. There is nothing better than being able to combiine the love of the game, with the love you have for your family! I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!
I am thankful for so very many things as I have led a blessed life. I am a 2x cancer survivor and as such I offer prayers and encouragement to those who are facing that deamon. I am greatful that I am a survivor.

I am greatful for my family - all of them - even the annoying ones. What a gift to have people who feel the ability and need to love each other even when sometimes they may not like each other very much.

I am greatfull for the impact baseball has had on my family. We have embraced it with a shared passion. Both sons have learned life lessons and made many friends through this game. I have heard both use it to explain life situations to others. It is a great analogy for life.

I am thankful that this website has offered some guidance and stress relief during the recruiting process. I am also thankful for all the posts I have read - the good (so helpful) - the bad (better to get it out of your system here than elsewhere) - and the ugly (I read those and try to be careful not to make posts in the same way). Also - the Virginia board has offered great specific insight on playing ball in high school in my state.

Thanks everyone - enjoy the season - and make a point to appreciate the blessing around you!
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My husband had prostrate cancer about 5 years ago.It was starnge as the test the PSA was in normal range,but not at zero.His regular doctor sent him to a urologist just in case.He went and the urologist said I am surprised the regular doctor even sent you to me with this low of a PSA.Anyway it took about 3 months to get him into the urologist because it wasnt considered serious.They found a walnut size mass when they checked him.In three months it went from no mass to a walnut size mass.Upon biopsy they said he had a very aggressive type of cancer, and it was stage two.

He had his prostrate removed, and they didnt see any cells outside of the prostate.

He was only 57 at the time.Doctor said he would of been dead in five years had it not been found.Thank God for the regular doctor to send him even though PSA was in normal range.

Men get your prostrates checked annually!!!!

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