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I haven't been here for a while. Several of you have kindly asked about my son's status in private and offered encouraging words and suggestions. Now that my son's college application and baseball journey has come to an end, I'd like to post an update. 

Last summer, right before his senior year, he went to a couple showcases that were highly recommended on this forum. He was not chased after by coaches, but he did get a few D3 coach's attention. When he prepared his college application list, he had two tracks -- one filled with big D1 Engineering universities with no chance of baseball,  the other with small D3 colleges with baseball opportunities.

A couple ideal intersections were Caltech and Harvey Mudd, which offered excellent engineering plus baseball opportunities. Unfortunately, these colleges were extremely competitive, and he was rejected even with coach's support. His academic record is definitely within range of admitted students. I heard that coaches at these schools can only get their top 3 candidates through, so he probably didn't rank high enough on coach's board.

Meanwhile, he got some very good admission offers from prominent Engineering colleges, such as Georgia Tech, UCSD, Calpoly, USC, and UWashington. Colleges clearly value his potential as a engineer more than his potential as a baseball player. He did have options until the end. He got admissions from Swarthmore, Grinnell, and Whitman, where he would have been preferred walk-on. However, none of these colleges can compare to the other big universities in the major he wants to pursue. In the end, he decided to attend UW and gave up baseball, at least the varsity kind. 

It's never easy to say goodbye to a sport that has been a significant part of his life, but he's handling it well. Instead of playing summer baseball, he's doing part time job and enrolled in a college class to jump ahead. He shared this podcast with me today (http://freakonomics.com/podcas...-upside-of-quitting/). It's part of the summer class, and it talks about economics of quitting. There is a baseball player's story (~5-20 min in the podcast). It's main takeaway is "don't fret the sunk cost and choose your best option for the future." 

Anyway, just want to say thanks to all the knowledge and support I got from this forum. I did not grow up with baseball and I learned all about the sport from following my son's baseball career and this forum. Now I get to follow the Huskies (what a run in the CWS!) and the Mariners (how many more 1 run games can they win?) and this great sport called Baseball!

 

 

 

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Great post BOGEYORPAR, thanks for sharing the process that your son went through.  One of my boys was in a very similar situation although with football.  Initially it was very hard to swallow but definitely was a great decision for his life track.  After hearing a prominent coach tell him not to make his decision based on the coming 4 years but his next 40, a lot of clarity came pretty quickly for him.  Best of luck to your son moving forward, he sounds like he has a great head on his shoulders + is off to a good start! 

Bogey,

Thanks for the update.   Been there with my middle son, so I know kind of what you are feeling.  Not to worry, he'll be so focused on engineering that it will be difficult to think of anything else!  Just kidding....sort of.  ;-)   Like your son, my middle son picked a big D1 Power 5 engineering school.  There is so much going on his campus, and the future job opportunities and internships are right there either through the school or on his own.   My son found internships on his own and had a well paying engineering job with a large energy company before he started his senior year.  If he is passionate about an engineering career then he'll love it, and won't look back.  

Good luck, and feel free to PM if you want to chat further.

Fenwaysouth

I recently purchased BB equipment on ebay from a college bound retiree. I am a terrible internet consumer and entered the incorrect shipping address and had to reach out to the kid to fix. He was a very nice young man looking forward to start the next phase of his life, but the selling of his gear was clearly bitter sweet. He was grateful that it was going to continue on a high school and travel career. Luckily the conversation was by keyboard as I was admittedly a little emotional. 

Thanks for sharing, Bogey... I think this is a great example of someone deciding to leave the game (at least in part) for all the right reasons and with nothing but a huge upside looming.  Of course, bittersweet but many leave or are told they are done with far more bitter.

Congratulations to you and your son!

fenwaysouth posted:

Bogey,

Thanks for the update.   Been there with my middle son, so I know kind of what you are feeling.  Not to worry, he'll be so focused on engineering that it will be difficult to think of anything else!  Just kidding....sort of.  ;-)   Like your son, my middle son picked a big D1 Power 5 engineering school.  There is so much going on his campus, and the future job opportunities and internships are right there either through the school or on his own.   My son found internships on his own and had a well paying engineering job with a large energy company before he started his senior year.  If he is passionate about an engineering career then he'll love it, and won't look back.  

Good luck, and feel free to PM if you want to chat further.

Fenwaysouth

Fenway, your elder son's story has always been the inspiration for my son -- doing both Engineering and Baseball at the highest level is super hard and only a few super humans can achieve that! I haven't heard your middle son's story before. When my son forwarded me the "upside of quiting" story, I know he's still trying to justify his decision. I will let him know your middle son's story to give him more comfort. 

2022NYC posted:

I recently purchased BB equipment on ebay from a college bound retiree. I am a terrible internet consumer and entered the incorrect shipping address and had to reach out to the kid to fix. He was a very nice young man looking forward to start the next phase of his life, but the selling of his gear was clearly bitter sweet. He was grateful that it was going to continue on a high school and travel career. Luckily the conversation was by keyboard as I was admittedly a little emotional. 

Are you looking to purchase more? We have some "like new" equipment that we have no use of any more …  

standballdad posted:

Hey Bogey your sons journey sounds a lot like my sons. There is a lot of life after baseball so best wishes! He will make you proud in so many other ways!

Yes, standballbad, I've learned a lot from your boy's experience. Heck, I didn't even know some of the top schools require certain subject test scores until talking to you. Once my son topped that score, several coaches immediately started calling. 

How's your boy doing at AF? 

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