I know this topic has been touched on before, but I am looking for collective words of wisdom.
My son (a pitcher) has an upcoming overnight official visit at a NESCAC. Coach has submitted transcript / scores to admissions. He is a bubble case, but coach said he would get this pre-read before inviting him up, so I assume that means he got a good response from admissions.
My husband and I expect to bring him there Saturday, and meet the coach, then go off and enjoy a campus tour and a night in the fun city. And try not to worry about the college night life too much....
My questions for all of you:
1. Can we expect or should we be ready for a conversation with the coach about an offer? In other words, at NESCAC in particular, is the overnight / OV a fairly clear indication of interest on coach's part? (As I understand it, this would not be a 'offer' per se, but an assurance that he will get the support he needs in admissions, and a spot on the roster, in exchange for son to apply ED and commit.)
2. If we should expect that a recruiting offer will be made, would the coach be asking my son to commit to an ED app right now? (There must be some in there to actaully fill out the app and submit, and to get a financial aid read.)
3. Does the timing of this allow for anything to develop with another school in October, or do you pretty quickly move from OV to offer to 'commiting ED' in early / mid October.
4. Is it also just as possible there will not be an offer this weekend, that my son is going for an OV, but the coach already has all his offers out, and son is a 'back up' candidate?
I might be projecting ahead too much (I tend to do that) yet I want us to be ready.
Thanks for any comments, and any tips for the 3 of us!
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