Quick question, my 2013 son and I are having an argument, he claims that he can receive text and email after 1 Sept I think it's only mail. What's the right answer?
Thanks
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quote:Originally posted by justbaseball:
One other thing...I believe parents lock in too much to the September 1 date as a barometer of interest and future good (or not) things to come.
Through two sons who have or will play D1 baseball in a high level conference (and both had multiple choices in college selection)...September 1 just wasn't a very important date in retrospect. In the rearview mirror, I see September 1 as one of the most inconsequential dates on the recruiting calendar.
Maybe something will come, maybe nothing will come. I wouldn't put too much emotional investment in either situation.
quote:Originally posted by StateDynasty:
Not so fast Jimnev. Tomorrow your son will be able to recieve personal emails and home mail but NOT text messages. Text Messaging was banned a few years ago by the NCAA to prevent some very agressive coaches going haywire on their recruits.
quote:Originally posted by justbaseball:
One other thing...I believe parents lock in too much to the September 1 date as a barometer of interest and future good (or not) things to come.
Through two sons who have or will play D1 baseball in a high level conference (and both had multiple choices in college selection)...September 1 just wasn't a very important date in retrospect. In the rearview mirror, I see September 1 as one of the most inconsequential dates on the recruiting calendar.
Maybe something will come, maybe nothing will come. I wouldn't put too much emotional investment in either situation.
quote:...but they also have a pretty darn good last name...who knows, we could be distant relatives? Big Grin
quote:Originally posted by PGStaff:
However, having been to every SEC school, I’m trying to figure out which one would be undesirable.
quote:Originally posted by topscout47:
There are plenty of schools i would not be on after dark wallking around. anyone who thinks all sec schools or any other conference schools are ALL nice has not been to them ALL. Some are great and some are not. Not all PG sites are desirable or safe. I am not going to bash high schools or towns but thats reality. Same for pro parks but i would say don't turn down a contract hire a bodyguard
quote:Originally posted by whits23:
we just got 3 today saying my son was recommended but they wont say who. I think its more about camp and fall revenue for them but if its a school we like we would attend.
quote:Originally posted by justbaseball:
2013 - I think what you are experiencing is more the norm.
With our older son...who in the end had his pick of nearly any college...he mailed one of the local D1s expressing interest around 9/1 of junior year. Fairly quickly he got a nice letter back, said all the 'right' things (to my eye) and with a questionnaire.
Couple of weeks later, his summer coach was in a restaurant with the head coach of that school and told him he really needed to check out our son. Head coach basically said, 'f-you, I don't need any of your stinking players' and headed out.
Fast forward another couple of weeks...son was at a local showcase with that same head coach and assistant there to watch. Most likely first time they had seen him in person. 2-3 days later son gets a handwritten letter in the mail from the assistant coach expressing sincere and serious interest in our son...with an attachment to "fill out our questionnaire." (Remember they had it on file...didn't even bother to look). Also inviting him to their upcoming camp (also had his registration for that camp already...on file, didn't bother to look).
Now fast forward another 8 months and head coach and assistant coach are in our living room on July 1 offering son the biggest scholarship they had offered to that point.
Don't think they ever pieced together all of the missteps. Son picked another school BTW...I never told him about the comments in the restaurant...so his decision was pretty 'clean.'
This example is one of the reasons I advise not to get too fired up nor too down about the September 1 date. If it ends up mattering, I just think it will be more by coincidence than anything else.
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quote:Originally posted by johnj314:quote:bsbl247
Really enjoed reading your post and no, it was not boring at all. I have a couple of questions for you though. Seems that we have a similiar situation and it would help us to know more about your son's specific situation. First, was your son recruited as a two player, postion player or pitcher. We're trying to decide if it's time to quit the position play (with travel team, not HS) and focus 100% on pitching. After the Sept PG event in AZ what level of schools followed up with you and offered- D!, D2 Juco and what level did he end up at??? Also, what kind of measurables did your son have at the PG events- pitching velocities mainly. Was your son ranked by PG going into his senior year? And finally what amount of September 1st email/letters did he recive his Junior year? Thanks in advance...
quote:Originally posted by YoungGunDad:
bsbl247, that was a really great post. It shows how when determination and planning takes place that things can and do come together sometimes.
It also just shows how sometimes we as parents see a "bad outing" from our sons when College coaches and recruiters see a bigger picture.
YGD
quote:Originally posted by Ryanrod23:
bsbl247,
Great stuff. Enjoy that precious time with family. At least it will be easier for you to follow your son's games. It was a pleasure meeting you at the AZ Senior Fall Classic last year.
My son's goals (Thanks to Mr. Springer)Walk up to the plate with confidence, Hit the Ball Hard and Help your team win. Pretty much like yours!
quote:What I love the most about this ---- the motivation factor. Priceless. Studying more than ever, working out more than ever. (Oh yeah, and EATING more than ever!)