quote:felt that a recommendation was harmless, not thinking it through
Trouble is, his recommendation was not harmless. Sadly, some harm may have been done to his reputation.
Several months ago, my son's select director emailed a note of endorsement to a college coach. The coach responded, "I really appreciate your assessment of xx - you have always been very honest with us in the past so we take what you say very seriously." Later, when we were visiting with the coach, he told us of many high school and select coaches who oversell their players. He seemed pretty frustrated with their effusive praise and I assumed that he does not put a lot of weight on their recommendations. If they only knew how they are now regarded...
