quote:don't you agree that he has an unfair advantage over the kid who has an August birthday that entered the grade as the designated age set by the school system? Why does the school district set up ages for a child to enter school if the parent can just arbitarily choose when he or she can enter?
Brick, I guess I don't defer what I believe is in the best interests of my child to what "the system" decides I should do. Why would it be "unfair" if other parents have the opportunity to make the same decision?
And do you think parents "arbitrarily" decide things like this for their kids? Do you? Our decision was hardly arbitrary, nor was it ever even an issue with anybody throughout his schooling.
It sounds as if we differ. I think the parents are responsible for their children, and make better decisions for their welfare than school districts.
Talk about arbitrary! What is more arbitrary than to set, as you suggest, hard and fast age criteria for very young children as to when they must enter school! And then, what, tell parents they are FORCED to send their children at that specified age, or else what?
Sounds like you trust these institutions a heck of a lot more than I do to decide where my child "belongs."
And no, I have never had any problem looking anyone in the eye.