This is a story of another sport. But the sport is irrelevant to the lesson. It could just as easily be the story of a baseball player slacking off. A friend's daughter plays D3 field hockey. She was recruited to an academic D3. I believe she's there on academics and told the coach she plays field hockey.
Last fall I was with the dad when he received a panicked call from her about being reported for drinking on Saturday night. This was in season the night before an 11am game. Most of the team was at the party. The team went 1-19 last year.
Yesterday I was attempting casual conversation with the girl. I asked her if field hockey players play in the summer. I still don't know. She doesn't. I asked her what she was doing over the summer to improve for next fall. Nothing. I asked what she's doing to get in shape for the season. She said she will start getting in shape mid August.
The best season the program has had in the past five years is 4-16. In the past ten it's 7-13. This girl said she chose the program because the new coach said she's going to change the culture. I'm thinking to myself, what is this player doing to change the culture? It appears to me she doesn't know the difference between a dream and the work ethic to make it happen.
The challenge doesn't end when an athlete gets recruited to college sports. It's when the challenge begins. Do you want to win? Do you want to be an active part of winning? I question whether to call this girl an athlete or a participant.