To partially answer your questions above:
1) joemktg and I are from the same state. You are from a different state. Not thinking you will come to the east coast to play, but like joemktg said, the Canes do recruit nationwide. (I wonder why no one from your area has commented?)
2) Coaches come and go, or move to different age brackets.
3) What is a great coach/organization to one, may not be to another. Grumbling about coaches/orgainizations mostly happens due to (lack of) playing time, which was never the case for us. (Or costs lol).
4) keewartson is 4 years removed from travel ball. We have high regard for all the coaches he has played under. I tried to give you instances why son changed teams over 5-6 years, which narrowed down, was to play on the highest competitive team he could, and get college exposure.
But, I think mostly, this is a nice site. Folks don't want to air complaints about teams. There was a whole thread on a north carolina travel team/organization a while back that I think was shut down because a parent was complaining that the "B" team wasn't getting the good tournaments, etc, but the "A" team was. Point is.....play well enough to be on the "A" team or change teams, but don't come on the board complaining.