I know this is only anecdotal and I cringe to put this out there as it is my son but he is living this exact scenario right now as a freshman at what in recent years been a top 40 program but not in a power 5 conference.
18 pitchers in fall camp. I think of those 14 are RHP. Throw out the submarine guy so down to 13. Of those I think at least 6-7 cruise comfortably above 90.
I've said it before son is an outlier. Topped at 85 coming out of HS. Now more like sitting 85-87.
First team all state by the TX HS coaches last year, but guess what happened in first fall outing that was only fastball and changeups. He got smoked. 85 mph bp basically. College hitters don't miss many 90 mph fastballs when they know they are coming. 85 they miss rarely if ever
Until he could start pitching backwards with a high spin rate slider he was pretty helpless at that velo against college quality hitters. Now he has a chance to win with fastball when they sit on slider. He has done well this fall but nothing is guaranteed.
Cabbage said it well earlier. It is extremely hard to make that jump. It's a battle and a grind. Kids have their own criteria when looking at schools. My son wanted to win and play in the post season. He ended up at his dream school. He has confidence he will earn his innings like he always has.
I understand when folks say 90+ etc I really do but I also think it is easy as a player and a parent to let others define what you should chase after. I say chase that dream school until they say no but also be wise enough to have a plan B. Know when to pull the plug on dream chasing and move to plan B. I still see lots of players get stuck and it's fall of senior year of HS and now what. Son had several backup juco offers just in case.
This is a very worthy discussion IMO. Just like anything I think knowledge is power in this recruiting game. I don't think my son would be at a top program as an outlier if not for everything I started to learn here when he was in 8th grade.