As many of you know, I had the pleasure to coach the DBAT 16U team this past summer.
In regards to this topic, one of the most fullfilling moments of my summer as a coach came at the conclusion of our Mickey Mantle World Series.
When we had our last player/coach meeting, the kids finished by giving each other hugs and handshakes. Now this may sound corny, but to me, this is what makes me coach.
When I look back on my baseball career, I never think of individual accomplishments. But I do reflect on my teammates and moments off the field more than on the field.
Just remember this folks, this is amatuer baseball. It is not life and death. What is meant to be will happen. Forcing issues will only complicate things and take away enjoyment.