bothsportsdad,
Thanks for providing more info. I still think you need a third party to evaluate your son's baseball skill set....you need to know where he would best fit. You've provided some info on the academics. So, let's try to create a search strategy based on what you've provided and some tools to help your son start doing some research......and there will be a lot of research that will need to be done. Next step is to determins how far away your son is willing to go to school from home, and make some assumptions. Let's make some assumptions that he is capable of playing D1, D2, D3 and JUCO and he has an interest in math. I would then go to collegeboard.com to create a search profile (click For Students, then create a free account). You can create a personalized profile that will have all the search elements you've been talking about. I would then cross reference that with visits to
http://www.boydsworld.com/ - to get ISR and RPI info for D1, D2, D3, NAIA and JUCO
http://warrennolan.com/baseball/2012/index - review power rankings and Conference Strength
to get an idea of how these schools in the collegeboard.com results stack up in baseball terms. Research each program that interests you to create a list of 50 or so on a spreadsheet. I would review the college attendees for the showcases and camps I've been offered to determine if there is a fit. I would review the specific colleges roster to see what their catching situation is projected to be. I would call the coach (if his season is over), and ask him about his recruiting schedule for the summer and his catching situation. If I didn't reach him by phone, I would email him. Create a status list of the schools you've contacted and how far you are in the process with them including next steps. If your son doesn't hear from the coach call him back in a couple weeks. Recruited = passion + skill + exposure + persistence + luck.
As other posters have pointed out, everybody's path to get there is different. I agree with that 100%. But the methodology to find the path is fairly universal. There are only so many schools, you have to distill & filter the search down to what makes most sense to you. Our experience was very similiar to
calisportsfan. My son played on one of the best national travel teams that actually won the 16U PG WWBA. We attended all kinds of top notch baseball showcases & tournaments but he still didn't stand out. We had to adjust our strategy to highlight something else that made him standout, and that was his academics. So we attended baseball academic showcases and top academic camps and that is when things really started to happen. Don't be afraid to fail as you are learning how to do this. Most people do, and we certainly did. But, looking back it really wasn't failure it was learning. Adjust your strategy as you move forward. Once you find an interested coach/school then the questions change. So, don't be afraid to ask those questions here as well or PM me if you have specific questions.
Good luck.