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I have "lurked" here for a little while, responded a few times in a few threads, but I feel that what I witnessed yesterday at a tournament deserves a post.

My son's team, the Jumbonos Stix, participated in last week's Triple Crown World Series for 14U teams, in Steamboat Springs, Co. They went 2-1 in pool play, were seeded 8th, and proceeded to make a run in bracket play. They defeated the #9 seed from Kansas, the #1 seed from Texas, and the #10 (or 12) seed from Washington state enroute to the semi-final game on Sunday morning. Sunday morning, they defeated the Pepsi Royals from Olympia, Washington, 11-1, to advance to the championship game. The Pepsi Royals then battled off a Texas team to make their way back to the championship game from the loser's bracket.

The Royals brought out a very good pitcher for the championship game. He threw decent gas; but, most importantly, he hit his spots and kept the bulk of our hitters guessing. The Royals also had a grand-slam against one of our best pitchers, and led the game, 4-2, going into the bottom of the 6th inning.

In the bottom of the 6th, we were able to score 2 runs and make it a tie game. In the top of the 7th, the Royals threatened, but did not score. They held us scoreless in the bottom half of the inning, and we entered the top of the 8th with a 4-4 tie.

My son then took the mound. The first batter he faced launched one out, and the Royals were up 5-4. As the ball left the yard, my son bent double over the mound, dropped his glove, and looked into the dugout at his coaches with tears in his eyes. As the base-runner rounded first, my son stared at the ground and shook his head. As the base-runner rounded second, our 3rd baseman walked to the mound, followed closely by our 1st baseman and catcher. The 2B and SS were close on their heels. Each young man then threw their arms around "their" pitcher, giving words of encouragement and promising that they were behind him, win or lose. As the Royals parents, coaches and players understandably rejoiced; the Stix team rallied behind my son as one unit. Not a negative comment was made. Players who have been the "go-to-guys" on their respective teams for years showed by word and deed that for that week, that game, that inning, the 11 young men wearing Stix jerseys were a "team" in every sense of the word. I stood in awe that 14-yr-olds could display the kind of teamwork and support that seems so difficult for many adults to achieve.

My son was able to strike out 2 of the following 5 batters, the 3rd out coming on a change-up that one of the Royals better hitters misjudged with 2 runners on base.

The Stix entered the bottom of the 8th needing 1 run to tie and 2 to win. They scored those runs with 2 outs. The first coming from our 1B, who launched one off the fence. Our next batter blooped into right, the RF overran the ball, and our 1B scored. In the ensuing throws, our base-runner made it to 3rd. The winning run was driven in by the catcher who moments before had stood beside his best friend and future HS teammate, on a 3-2 count. As the Stix players went nuts, I stood there, tears in my own eyes, trying to "lock in" each individual as they rejoiced.

I will carry many moments in my memory of my son's youth baseball career. However, the one that will stand out is the memory of 10 players rallying behind "one of their own", with 5 of them walking to the mound and unashamedly hugging their teammate at one of his lowest times.

Many of those young men will play on rival teams in HS. Two of them will play with my son. All of them have my respect and admiration for showing the kind of character so many of us as parents and/or coaches want our young men to display; either on or off the field. They earned no less.

If you have read this far...thank you for your patience in indulging a baseball dad sharing his son's moment. I thank the HSBBW for giving me the opportunity to learn about the road ahead from those who have "been there and done that"; and I thank you for giving me the outlet to share what I believe is a true team moment.

Thank you MN-Mom,

27's Dad
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27'sDad - that was one of the very best posts I have ever read here on the hsbbweb. It represents everything I have learned and come to believe about baseball. Even though people have not always picked him up, I have tried to teach my son his whole life to watch the other kid's back and pick the other guy up. That is what winning teams do and that is what winning players do. You get every guy on the team more concerned about the team than themselves, then miracles can happen and championships can be won. Even if they would not have come back to score the go ahead runs, those boys were already winners in my book.
I'm not so sure it was a good post ... it made me cry! Just kidding on that beginning part, of course. Thanks, 27'sDad, for a heartwarming post about some very fine young men.

And BTW, congrats to your son for "shaking it off" and getting the job done. There's a life lesson in that part of the story, too. Smile

Julie
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Thank you all for the wonderful responses!

ClevelandDad: It is what we have tried to instill in 27 as well. To see it displayed by an entire team, at just that moment, made me proud to be associated with every one of those young men. And, I thanked each of them personally after the awards ceremony. Their respnse? To a young man they were surprised by the "thank you". As one of our best righties put it: "Been there. It happens to all of us. You pick your teammate up and go on."

fanofgame: I believe that is what happened! In every game, someone different on the team made a terrific defensive play, or had the clutch hit, or pitched better than ever before. In one of the bracket games, our #10 hitter (a 13-yr-old playing up) hit a 2-run homer to give his pitcher insurance runs against a team that had battled back to close the game to 2 runs. We won by those 4 runs.

FormerObserver: I hope so. I am truly looking forward to next spring and 27's chances of making the freshman team. The really great thing about our young men's victory is that our catcher's dad (also the Freshman baseball coach) was able to make the drive out Sunday morning and see his son drive in the winning run! He kept his sunglasses on so we couldn't see any "redness". Cool

MN-Mom: I truly believe that his teammates' response is a large part of what helped him shake it off. And, the coaches didn't even walk out to the mound. They let the players do their thing, and then told 27 to keep working hard. Their confidence in him helped a great deal too.

TPM: Perfectly stated!
When it's all said and done, these are the moments your son and you will remember when reflecting on your baseball memories.

As you guide your son through his career, recall on this moment to draw on what's really important about the game.

Whether he's 25 in pro ball or 14 on worn out fields, the memories he creates with his TEAM will be the ones most cherished. I promise.

Thanks for sharing as I enjoyed your story.
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I was there and that was a great game! #9 is a heck of a player. You left out a key part of the game worth noting. The 6th inning was replayed after a protest that the Pepsi picher was over his innings allowed( originally no runs were scored in the 6th of the starting pither #25). I think this changed the momentum of the game.

BTW, my son's team knocked out the #1 seed when they gave them their second loss! That was a pretty exciting game also!
bbdad2007,

your son's team's game against the #1 seed was exciting. I caught the last couple of innings of that one, (cheering from your side of the field, of course), and loved it. Also, your young men were a class act, and showed tremendous sportsmanship. It made me proud to be from Northern California.

I do agree that replaying the 6th changed the momentum. However, I was hoping #25 still had innings left. It would have cost our coaches some cash, but he had pitched a beauty against us and deserved to finish it out.

I constantly tell #9's parents he isn't just a player; he's a force of nature! 7 homers in 8 games, at least 6 doubles, and some clutch singles (in addition to at least 9 intentional walks). He had a very good tournament.
Ken,

You are absolutely correct. Over the past several months of "lurking" here, I have learned many valuable lessons.

Unfortuantely for my son, I was one of those "fathers" who would rather complain about the failure at the plate in the 3rd inning, and sometimes forget to mention the defensive gem, or just a team moment where 27 would console a teammate.

Because of all the good advice, and life's lessons, offered here, I made a hard-fast rule with myself that I would be a cheerleader first and foremost, and strive to be as 100% positive as I could; and leave the coaching to the coaches. After all, my son will play baseball for such a short time; he is my son for a life-time.

As a result, my son and I had a terrific time in Steamboat. Regardless of his on-the-field play, I would find something positive in the game to latch onto, and would stress that, and nothing else. Then I would leave it "on the field", and we would do something fun that had nothing to do with baseball.

By the time the 8th inning of the championship game rolled around, I was able to hold my tongue, and try to imagine what my son must be feeling. When his teammates responded as they did, one of the things I thought of was what a typical 27's Dad response would have been. It wouldn't have been pretty. Having your past behavior put to shame by 14-yr-olds does not help the male ego Wink. However, the fact that I held my piece, and when my son did look to me (after they came in for the bottom of the 8th) my words were: "Way to hold it to one, son. Way to keep it together and help your team."

The hugs he has given me since, are worth every lesson I've learned here. His words: "Thank you so much for taking me to Steamboat. I had so much fun", were proof that an old-dog can learn new tricks. That is also why I thank people such as yourself, MN-Mom, and so many other "old-timers" here at HSBBW. Your viewpoints, and experiences do help us "newbies" to be more aware of what type of parents we may be. And, it gives us the chance to change; hopefully making our sons' future playing much more enjoyable...for everyone.

Thank you again,

27'sDad

P.S. I sincerely hope that years from now, he will be as proud of me as a spectator, as I am of him...every day...as my son.

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