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hey guys. ive read alot of parents posting on here and everything and i want some advice. im a 14 yr old from illinois. my life long dream is to play college ball and hopefully get into the MLB. is there any advice you guys could give me you gave your kids or learned with your kid advancing to reach this dream?
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What makes a good baseball player? Focus on those things. Spend your time working on getting better at the things that will make you a better player. Dont put your focus on the destination and where you want to go as much as putting it on the things that will help you get there.

The vast majority of kids will not play high school baseball. The vast majority of those that play high school baseball will not play in college.

So if your doing what the vast majority are doing you will be average. And if your average you will do what all the other average ball players are doing when its all said and done. You have to be willing to do what the majority are not willing to do. If your doing what everyone else is doing then you are average.

Work harder than everyone else. Do more than everyone else. If some follow your lead great. If none do then fine they dont want to go where you want to go.

Work on your basic baseball fundementals. Hitting , fielding , throwing. Work on being the best athlete you can possibly be. The faster you are , the quicker you are , the better shape you are in , the stronger you are - the better player you will be.

Work hard in the classroom. Be the best student you can be. Dont limit your opportunities not only in baseball but in life because you did not see importance of good grades and actually learning while you were in school.

Be the best person you can be. Not because coaches like good kids. Not because your parents want you to be a good kid. Be the best person you can be because you want to be a good person.

If your goal is to be the best player you can be. If your goal is to play past high school and as far as you can possibly go. Then you must be willing to actually dedicate yourself towards that goal. You must pay the price it takes to reach that goal. And then you must understand that will require you to do more , give more , sacrifice more than those around you.

Doing what everyone else is doing is not enough. It will make you average. Doing what no one else is willing to do and doing it with the understanding that this will only take you to where your ability and potential will take you is what is important. For some that may mean actually making the high school team. For others it will take them to the Major Leagues. But in the end you will know it took you as far as you could have possibly gone in the game. And you will never have to look back and say "I could have , I would have , I should have." You will know. And thats all that really matters in the end. Good luck
Outstanding post, Coach. At the risk of ruining it, I humbly add...understand that baseball is a game of frustration. You will go through hitting slumps, pitching slumps, and even fielding slumps. Do the things that Coach so eloquently described (in fact, print that post) but understand that you will have bumps in the road. That's the time to dust off and keep pushing. Don't let temporary set backs discourage you. Now, it's time for me to cut and paste Coach's advice to my son.

All the best.
I would add that you should educate yourself (and ask your mom or dad to join you) about your body and what conditioning is necessary and appropriate to make you stronger and keep you healthy as you grow and mature. Don't rely on your coaches to guide you in this -- while many have good intentions, they don't have the time and/or educational background to always do the right things. They are coaches, not personal trainers! Read or have your mom or dad read some of the posts on the ASMI forum (link below), not to scare you, but to make you aware of how to train smart and be careful. Also, don't get discouraged if your body gets unathletic for awhile while you grow -- it will come back. Mostly, as others have said, take one step at a time. Good luck!

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Originally posted by bulldog2010:
right now i can play everywhere but i normally start in center or short but im great third and im an ok pitcher but i wunna focus on 3b and center. umm i hit in the 3-5 slot. i had a slump thisyear but i normally hit around 400-600 i also lead my team in steals and outfield assists. (30 steals, caught only 5 times)
Don't worry about where you want to play. Focus on the positions that can get you on the field. In high school those positions will be those where the players will be graduated seniors the year before you're ready to step in. When my son was in 8th grade he approached the high school coach (he taught in the middle school). He had lunch with the coach and asked him what positions were the fastest way to starting on varsity. The coach told him since he could play infield and outfield just hit and he'll find him a position. He started at third as a soph. He started in center as a junior.

I've always had one philosophy on getting on the field. It doesn't matter what position you play. It doesn't matter where you bat in the order. As long as you're in the lineup you can prove yourself. My son went from batting 9th as a soph to 3rd as a junior.
thank you all for your help. if any more advice comes up please post. i enjoy hearing from all of you and it is truly helpful. im glad to see that other people are willing to help me. especially since we dont know each other. but thanks again and i will keep your advice in mind and use it to my advantage. im pretty close with the varsity coach for the HS im going to. he was my JH baseball coach and ive went to his work outs for pitching before. i believe that using your advice and sticking with the lessons learned from him and my parents i can get to where i want to be. to me, if i get only an inning a game to prove myself, thats where ill start. yet again, thank you and i hope to hear more from all of you

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