Originally Posted by Green Light:
If it were my kid, I would do my best to eliminate any "uneasiness" about this relatively insignificant aspect of the game, as freddy put it. There are so many other things to stress about if he wants to.
First, crow hop technique is something that a kid should be able to adjust, if he wants, with very little effort. It's not like the muscle memory will be indelibly etched whatever he does. He should be able to get ready for the next Fullerton camp with a few weeks prep, easily.
Second, I cannot imagine the following conversation among Fullerton coaches: "CAGIRL's kid has all the tools and would be a great fit for us here at Fullerton but he doesn't crow hop the way we teach it, so we will pass on him."
Third, there was good advice here about communication. I don't think any coach would agree, for example, that a hitter like Big Papi and a hitter like Chase Utley should have the same approach at the plate. The advice for Big Papi would probably be counterproductive for Utley, and vice-versa.
If the kid explains that it is not a matter of right or wrong, but based on his physical attributes the Fullerton crow hop will bring better results than the local crow hop.....and his performance backs up his claim....then the local coach would have to be a pretty unreasonable guy not to respect that.
Fourth, eliminate his uneasiness. Oh, I already said that.
Outstanding advice.
CAGIRL - welcome to the hsbbweb! I can feel your enthusiasm for wanting to give your son the best chance. Based on your comments here and in another thread, it seems you are putting the pressure on yourself to make sure things happen. It really is not about you it is about your son. Stewing over what the best coaching advice ought to be or how many pushups he ought to be doing could get you the opposite of what you really want to happen. What you want to foster is his love of the game. Be supportive and encouraging but let him experience everything. Good coaches, bad coaches, politics, good parents, bad parents, etc. etc. are all part of the game. Your son can handle all the positives and negatives that come with the game if you encourage him.
I would tell him to please the coach at the time. Whether he crow hops, side hops, forward hops, or no hops will not affect the price of rice in China. College coaches will grade him on arm strength, foot speed, ability to catch the ball, hitting, and hitting for power. If he has a strong arm, they will see it regardless of technique. The best way to develop arm strength is through long tossing and you can encourage him that way. You can encourage him to develop his foot speed. You can encourage him to play as many games as possible to develop his hitting but, but it ought to be because that is what his heart tells him to do not what you believe he needs to do.
I did everything I could to help my son but it was all driven by him. As one example, he asked for a batting cage for his 15th birthday and I'll admit it was an expensive birthday present but I knew he would make good use of it. He called me from work when it was delivered and I told him I would help put it up when I got home. When I got home, the cage was already up and I could hear the balls pinging in the back yard as I got out of the car. He used it everyday of every spring, summer and fall until he went to college. None of that was my idea and I never had to supply the motivation. Parents can be facilitators but the motivation and desire ought to come from the player.