My son is a junior position player who has already been in contact with his top 3 choices for schools. We have heard don't put all your eggs in one basket (or 3 baskets, for that matter), so we are "casting a wide net" and plan to mail out sheets with son's stats, awards, and contact info to about 20 schools he has mild to moderate interest in. I guess I have 2 questions: (1) Any recommendations for things we should say/not say when we mail these things out? (2) Son attended a showcase this fall at his top choice for a baseball program and the program has indicated what we believe to be clearcut interest in him. Let's call this college School A. Coaches from School B (which has a lower-level program) also worked with son at this showcase and son wants to send a sheet to them too. But....School B coaches have a close affiliation with School A, and I'm worried they may let School A know we've contacted them and the School A coaches may think son is not that interested in School A. Am I paranoid or are my concerns justified? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
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You'll find suggestions on what info to put into a contact letter on the 
As others have said, don't worry about coaches talking. It can be a small community when it comes to college coaches and YES, they are going to talk and not much will be kept a secret among high-profile players. That's normal and so is a players talking with multiple schools! That's how its done and no coach is going to back away from a player they want because he is talking to multiple schools! IMO, Now is a great time to start contacting them sending out his HS schedules to the local colleges as well as providing all the coaches with information on his junior summer schedule where they can see him play. Good Luck and continue to ask questions! 
