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My son is 13, May birthday, and I just can’t explain how much I enjoy our relationship. We have many things we talk about but baseball is our ultimate bond.

I can see it now that friends (girls) are starting to become more important but he always pushes me to go throw or hit or whatever. About once or twice a month we will go out to dinner after a workout and it is amazing what he confides in me – he is a man in height and weight but he still maturing and still needs guidance.

I think the greatest advice I have given him is: Great question “what do you think”. Sounds wimpy but its not – it leads to a conversation where he works through it and comes to a good conclusion, he is mature beyond his years.

Do good kids play baseball or does baseball make good kids???....or probably both

Either way, I’m blessed with a wonderful son.

Merry Christmas to all of you, I pray the good Lord blesses you all.

Fungo = you are top notch
Trhit = don’t always agree with you – but top notch
PGstaff – outstanding
Coach Knight – Fantastic
CoachB25 – Awesome
Coach May – would love to meet you
Tiger Paw – your love of the game/son is an inspiration

If you have 84 limons what do you get………………………..yawn

I sincerely wish that 10 years from now I’m able to give advice to others because of my families experience with LL, HS and college/MLB.

I think we all have one thing in common – we love our children!!!!

Amen???
"Before I refuse to take your questions, I have an opening statement." - Ronald Reagan
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Dave

You are so right--it is the love for our kids and the great game of baseball as well that keeps us involved as we do

I appreciate being named to your list. I am certainly in with some great company there.

We don't have to agree on everything--think how boring it would be.

Happy holidays to all
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Dave17, Give him a hug and an occasional kick in the butt. Sit back and enjoy what has to be the greatest experience in your life. Watching your child grow up. Side note, Dave, my daughter and I just came from her pitching lessons this morning. We saw something I hope I'll never see again. A guy was constantly complaining during the lesson that his girl wasn't throwing hard enough. He made her and the rest of us miserable. We were in the next sessions' lessons. They went outside after their session and that Dad was so loud and offensive that the guy that runs the place had to go outside and get after him. HE HAS A GREAT KID! SHE IS VERY POLITE AND MY DAUGHTER HAS PITCHED AGAINST HER SEVERAL TIMES. He is ruining his and her life. Someday, he will regret his actions. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Count your blessings and make your blessings count!
Dave,
You must be a good guy because you share the same name as my son Big Grin
I too thank you for the recognition. However, I do not love my son or baseball anymore than anyone else who comes to this site.
I am only a mom who has tried to help her son reach his full potential as a player, student, youngman, but most important a decent human being. Yes, we have probably overstepped some boundaries along the way, but only when we felt our son was being taken advantage and jeopardized his health or made some choices that we felt were not responsible ones.
Continue to enjoy those special moments with your son, they grow up too fast. Do not become disappointed if you feel that his friends (or girlfriend) take over as his main confidants as he grows up. Love your son for his accomplishmnets, no matter how big or small and be supportive if he decides to continue or not continue to play the game, play football or join the marching band. It is his life, you are there just to guide him in the growing process. Don't ever tell him he is better than anyone else, teach him humility (I think we could all learn lessons from our kids on that one) and respect for authority, no matter how much he dislikes his coach, teachers, boss, etc.
The best news we can receive is not when someone mentions how much talent our kids have, how smart they are, how handsome but how well mannered they are and how responsible they have become as they reach adulthood.
Happy holidays to you and your family.
TPM

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