When i was playing, we were always talking about who's datin who and social things. We hardly ever talked about what was going on in the field. Even on my Elite Team we talked about dating and drinking and stuff. WE talked about the same things that we did during stretching as we did during the game. I always had a problem with that, cause I was always talking about the pitchers pickoff move or the fielders positioning rather than who i was giong out with. And our Elite coahc at the time backed me up by pointing out that if you really had the desire and talent to be a great ballplayer, than yould be talking about that in the dugout during a game, your mind wouldn't be on other things. That coach wasn't lying.