Will,
I think that there are many young umpires who mistake the authority given to them by the rule book to mean that they are never wrong. I can even remember myself in the beginning being much more confrontational and even had "rabbit ears".
I will even go as far as to say that in many chapters there is the coaches are the enemy mentality and your "umpire dignity" is all important. All this does is compound mistakes.
One of my rules in training is that an Umpire should never compound a mistake by making another one....being belligerent is never called for and ejecting a coach after a missed call is just an example of "2 wrongs don't make 1 right".....
I have never been to Pro school, and at my age and responsiblity level, I will never get to take 5 weeks out of my life to attend. I would love to go. I know I would come out a better umpire in many ways. Mechanically, rules knowledge and my game management would definately improve learning from the best.
However... I know that Jim Evans who runs one of the Pro schools, destinctly tells his graduates to be careful not to take that "I'm a pro trained umpire" attitude to extremes. I've seen it myself. It isn't pretty, and if that umpire stays with it, fortunatly he will mature out of that attitude.
Even though I have attended many umpire training classes and clinics, the one thing I have that I could not get from pro school is my
attitude towards the game and its participants....I feel I am part of the game, just like the field, the equipment and the rule book.....I am needed for the game to go smoothly. Noone is there to see me umpire....
I take ejections very personal....I don't want to eject anyone...But I will......actually the player or the coach eject themselves... all Im doing is confirming it.... I will eject when it is clear that the offender has crossed the line and is not willing to move on.....Ejection for me is a last resort and I will go home tonight thinking about how I could have kept that person in the game...... But dont get me wrong, I will and do eject people.....
Umpiring attracts a number of people who have the GOD complex. They are always right and you are wrong and they are the final authority. I can say that most will either get better over the years or drift away......
I can say that I have seen a shift in umpiring over the last 20 years. We are much more into getting the call right than being seen as unfailing....Now that doesnt help you with that ramrod you ran into.... Hopefully his veteran partner straightend him out after the game....
best of luck this year.....