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bballmom4life...YIKES!...Very, very sorry to hear that...but thanks so much for having the courage to share your story, it brings the discussion really front and center. Great to take the attitude that you are not being run off...I would certainly hope that the cach would go a long ay toward assurignt eh player that he has a strong and continuing place in the program...I would ask for that strong assurance. While it is only verbal, and holds no legal weigth, it my world it holds moral weight and I will call people on that if need be.
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- If we needed one more in a littany of reasons to keep academics high here is another one. It also may be possible to increase academic aid if there is no baseball $, I would reasearch that. May be something extra that compliance will allow.
- While I understand taking a more determined tone...have to be very careful, as suggested in previous posts. In these instances it is really hard for a player to take a stance when the coach holds all the cards, players are very aware of the attitude/PT relationship. I would offer this option to my son and let him decide.
- When this happens players have the "legal" right to appeal through the AD and a hearing, a two week window to appeal the decision. On the other hand, again, it is really swimming upstream and I am certain that it can get acrimonious...and that can have consequnces if a player stays an gets his $ back or not. Again players are very sensitive to this.
- While I understand the desire and value to keeping these thigs secret, a team is a VERY small and very tight world. It has been my expereince that players all know whao is getting what, if not to the exact % then at least who is big and who is small. While I would not make it a point of going out and announcing it to the world...IF it gets out there may be theraputic value, players of all people understand and empathise and teams can be so tight. Hard on a player to keep secrets from peers.
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This is one of those times where you use the snub/setback to fuel his baseball career to greater heights. You encourage him to go out and put it back in their faces with his performance. Go out and tear it up and he will ultimately have the last laugh.
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- Part of the real issue here is the DI-DI sit out. Makes a transfer reall hard. Almost have to go away from DI, and as an uppclassman have to look at class transfer.
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