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Originally posted by junior5:
And to be brutally honest, who are you to ask that question?
I'm asking that question so that you think a little more deeply. And to answer yours...
I come from a very intensive background. I have a fairly lengthy career as either military or law enforcement. We have high rates of substance abuse, interpersonal issues, and suicide. One former cop who became a psychologist sought to find out why.
Fundamentally, we deal in activities that provoke the adrenaline response. Not only that, we tend to identify ourselves as Soldiers, Marines, cops, etc. We don't identify ourselves as parents, siblings, friends, or the like. When we aren't doing our jobs, we tend to have two issues--we look for activities that recreate that response. To get that response, the behavior has to have risk...hence, driving fast, wanton ***, and things of that nature. The other coping mechanism is self-medication with some sort of mood-altering chemical. Not only do we seek to alleviate the "down" of not being at work, we also feel that we've lost our sense of identity.
Athletes fall into the same trap. When you participate in a competitive endeavor at a high level, and you identify yourself as that sport being your life, you are at risk for the same issues. That's why it scares the **** out of me when someone says that police work/the Army/anything is their life. For the past two years, part of my job has been to train these professionals as to how to be more rounded thinkers to avoid these traps, as a sort of peer mentor.
I wasn't asking flippantly. I was asking because I have seen very similar statements and justifications by some very talented people that ended up statistics.