Thanks All for the good advice. There is a PBR showcase later this month that we'll look into, see how that goes and maybe add the PG one that is later in early fall. I'll also tell my son that it is recommended to contact coaches himself and point him in that direction.
Regarding academics, his grades and ACTs are not great. If baseball was not a factor he would go to juco, at least for a couple years. He also does not know what he wants to do career-wise. For those reasons, we've thought juco would be a good fit for both baseball and academics. The DII schools in our state would probably be further down his list.His grades aren't so bad that DI is out of the question, but for my money, I don't think it's the right fit.
He has always wanted to play baseball in college. He would like to get drafted. We know a few people who were drafted, some ex-minor league guys, and some ex-major league guys, and the more we have learned, the less appealing it is. For us, it's been a situation where if he wants to do it and take the initiative fine, but we're fine with him not doing it, too. This is about as far as I'm willing to go with helping him, but I will do a little because I want him out of my house someday. I can tell him here are the 5 things you need to do, and it's in his court to do it.
As for where he stands as a prospect, he hasn't had a lot of attention and had some bad luck. He had a great sophomore school season, and then hurt his non-throwing shoulder batting second week into summer season (17u) and was stuck as a PO. In fall, he moved up to the 18u travel team as a PO and got about 2 innings/weekend, so we joined a new time this summer. Things just did not go well for spring of jr. year. He ended up on JV. Our school has tons of good players, and they didn't think he had a strong bat (he does, but with 8 months off from batting he was rusty). This turned out to be a blessing because his pitching was rough. He figured it out in time for summer, but the HS stats aren't anything I'd want to pass on to recruiters.He's also only about 5'-9". I don't think he'll grow more, but he's got room for muscle development.We definitely want coaches who appreciate average size players. The fall team he was on had a coach who favored big guys, and his HS team is the same.
Again, thanks for the advice & responses.