My mother's heart is breaking for my 17-year-old son, whose girlfriend of 6 months broke up with him Wednesday night for no good reason. She had been distant for the past few days -- and this was on the heels of a 2-week trip he took to play in tourneys in Louisiana and Missouri. My son think the trip was part of the problem. I'm thinking if she can't handle 2 weeks' separation, what would it have been like when he headed off to college next year? (She's a year behind him.)
He has been very fatigued these past few days and keeps complaining that his stomach hurts. His stomach has been bothering him the past few days and we're thinking it probably has to do with the break-up. He has a big showcase this Thursday through Saturday and a college showcase next Sunday and I sure hope he's able to get it back together by then.
It's just so sad..... She was his first girlfriend and they really did seem to get along so well. He told me last night he doesn't think he'll ever meet another girl like her. I know things will work out, but in the meantime, it's just so hard watching him suffer.
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