Agree with Coach May, speed differential is just one of several ingredients in a good changeup. Location, movement, deception are probably the three main things.
To answer your question... about 12-13 mph difference is the norm. Someone much smarter than me once figured out this was the ideal speed difference. Has to do with timing. Too fast can be like a slow fastball to the hitter. Too slow is easier for the hitter to adjust to.
I have seen some good Big League pitchers with 7-8 mph differencial. But there location, deception and especially the movement they get is outstanding.