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My son plays high school baseball for one of the largest School Districts in our state. 2014-2015 was his Freshman year and it went well. He played and started at 3rd base and batted 3rd in the lineup all season. He was brought up to Varsity for the playoffs. 

The following year he was on JV. The Coach called us one night in August of 2015 and practically begged my wife and I to be Treasures of the Booster Club. We hesitated but accepted the position. I remember thinking to myself at one of our first baseball meetings, I would love to know where all this money goes. Be careful what you wish for... 

One of the stipulations for us taking the time consuming position of Treasurer was to excuse my son from Spring Break 2016 because we booked a family reunion vacation. One of the baseball rules is Spring Break is not a break for baseball players except the last weekend. We met in the Coaches office and he agreed to it. In September of 2015 the coach sent out emails to parents asking for payment to play Fall baseball. He said “I will accept cash for this as I have to pay umpires, field rentals, coaches and entry fees for two Tournament teams”. The fees were $200 for Varsity and $125 for JV. We paid the $125 cash. Once Fall Ball started I thought there’s no way this costs $7325 (45 players) and started investigating on my own. I checked out the Tournament website and found that the umpires donate their time and the fields are donated as well. I emailed the Director and asked him if the umpires still donate their time and he said yes. As Treasurer we have the laptop that runs a Quickbooks program where all the financial transactions are kept. Booster Club wrote checks for the Tournament entry fee and paid coaches with checks as well. The coach said in emails he had to pay coaches with cash. We were also able to see exactly who paid the fees by check and made a parent list. The parents who did not pay the fees with a check are assumed cash payments. Fast forward to the start of the season in March of 2016  I decided I just can’t let this go. So I knew some of the JV parents that assumed paid cash and made up a phony story asking if they paid with cash because we needed that information for tax preparation. Every parent I asked with my heart racing said “yes, we paid cash to the coach”. We confirmed $1225 in cash was given to him and decided to not ask anyone else because we didn’t want to tip him off. After adding things up $4625 in cash was unaccounted for. My wife and I didn’t know what to do with this information. I called the District Attorneys office for guidance. They told me to make copies of everything and file a police report. Two games before Spring Break my son was benched. Keep in mind he never came off the field. We scratched our heads and wondered what the hell. One of the baseball policies is parents cannot ever discuss playing time with a coach. We went on the family reunion trip over Spring Break. Once we returned our son was benched for the next two games. Now Im furious but respect the policy. We then receive an email stating:
Good afternoon,
Due to your son missing 2 games during spring break, he has the following discipline to complete:
 
1.       Run 35 miles
a.       The most he can run in 1 day is 5 miles.  
b.      The minimum he can run in 1 day is 5 miles.
c.       He must complete his minimum requirement during a normal practice day, ‪3:30-6:00‬.
d.      He can only run his minimum requirement during practice time.
e.      If he fails to complete his minimum requirement for a day, his total will not be reduced.
2.       When he has completed his 35 miles, he will be reinstated to the team.  
3.       He will have to earn his playing time from that point on.

 As a runner who has completed two marathons in the last 6 years I know this “discipline” is unattainable. Two things will happen 1. He will get injured 2. Accepting this would inevitably keep him out of the program due to the stipulations and available practices during the week. So we decided to contact the Principal for a meeting before our son attempts this nonsense. She agrees to meet on short notice along with the Athletic Director and the first thing out of her mouth is “ you are more than welcome to drop out of the program” we both screamed at the same time  “ARE YOU KIDDING ME”. Furious my wife tells the Principal if my son goes out there and gets injured you will regret it. I jump in and explain how running these type of miles takes time and discipline to ramp up and it’s unattainable. She finally agrees and calls off the discipline. My son never played an inning for the rest of the season. He was asked up to Varsity for some reason but had to pay $100.00 for a pair of pants that cost $45.00. Not wanting to make waves we paid the $100.00 fee with a check. 

On 5/20/16 we contacted the Police and filed a report. We were contacted by an investigator who after only a few phone calls and emails stated “the DA's office advised her for us to go through the school because this must be worked out by the school district and they are the ones who will prosecute”. We never met the Detective and she never looked at any records. 

On 6/8/16 the Booster Club receives a check request form to pay a vendor $418.75 for silk screened Camp baseball t shirts. We write a check to the vendor and send it off. After we sent it we realized the shirts are for the coaches personal summer camp program and has nothing to do with the high school team. 

We decided to call a meeting at our house with the Booster Club President and Athletic Director. We meet on 6/21/16 and at my dining room table proceed to tell them the situation with the check request and missing cash. They were both shocked and went immediately to the school to inform the Principal. We received an email from the Principal stating there are strict protocols in place and she will keep us updated. 8 weeks go by and I start sending emails to upper levels of the school district requesting an internal investigation and audit. Finally I get a response from Legal Services stating " I'm not in charge of this matter and I'm trying to determine who is". 

Keep in mind the Booster Club President and Vice President both served as Principal at the High School. Plus the Principals son played on Varsity.

In 6/25/16 Booster Club receives a Deposit form with a check for $418.25 from non other than the Head Coach for “reimbursement”. We refused to deposit the check. 

On 8/29/16 we contacted School District Police and filed a report. That meeting took over 2 hours and was recorded. They confiscated the reimbursement check. 

On 9/5/16 we received an email from the school districts Audit Department asking to meet and turn over Booster Club documents for an audit. 

On 9/19/16 we receive a certified letter from an attorney stating the coach has retained him/her and to not to discuss this with any parents or players because it would create a negative atmosphere. 

On 9/21/16 we receive a certified letter from the School District stating “the Booster Club is a separate entity and the District takes no responsibility  in how the Booster Club has operated”.

In the mean time ever since the request for an audit from the District I have been trying to schedule a day to meet with the auditor and provide the documents. Unbeknownst to us the audit was cancelled and the Booster Club was dissolved.  

On 11/15/16 The School District Detective comes to my home and drops off the case files and the check and said “we do not have jurisdiction to investigate this case even though the law has been broken and I should contact the District Attorneys office for assistance”. I asked him what did the coach do with the cash. He would not answer. 

On 1/14/17 I email the Public Integrity Division at the District Attorneys office and inform them of the situation. 

On 1/17/17 We get a call from Public Integrity asking to meet to discuss the situation and to send all files electronically. So we get one of those Apps that scans and start sending over files. The last file I send is a copy of the Attorneys letter. We arrive downtown and are set up in a conference room. The Assistant DA says I’ll go grab the Forensic Auditor and return. On the table next to me are the multi copied legal papers typed out with the coaches name and numerous lines of information. I want to grab it and read it but too afraid they would walk in. So I say to my wife “they are going after him now” They return, sit down and we are introduced to the Forensic Auditor. He has a strange grin on his face. The Assistant DA proceeds to tell us they are unable to discuss this case because the Attorney the coach hired is the District Attorney. The new DA just took office in January and this is a conflict of interest. The case would need to go before a Judge and he/she would need to appoint a Special Procecutor. 

On 4/17/17 I call Public Integrity and they verify that yes a Special Procecutor was hired and they gave me his contact info. 

In the meantime my son is a Junior on Varsity and is the backup “second baseman”. He’s too big and slow for that position but I can’t say anything. Towards the end of the season the coach tells my son you are going to be a first baseman now and get ready because you will be starting if you beat out the starting senior. Playoffs roll around and to my dismay my son is starting at first base. He played really well considering his limited time at that position. They lost in the first round and the season ends. At the end of every year the coach sends out a detailed end of year evaluation and expectations for next year. His final comment was you are the starting first baseman for next year and need to take 100 ground balls a day in the off season. 

On 6/27/17 we meet the Special Procecutor and his private investigator go over the case. 

Summer ball (school team players only) rolls around and he plays one inning a game at first base. Towards the end of the season we drive an hour in traffic to a game only to discover the game has been scheduled at another location. We call another parent and they confirm an email was sent out last minute. We did not receive it. So we drive another hour and 10 minutes and arrive in the 6th inning. Very disappointing. 

My sons senior year of school starts and on the very first day of school practice the coach lines up all the players and gives them their position. The coach tells my son you will not be playing any fielding positions and will only have the opportunity to be the designated hitter. As a parent to here this come out of my sons mouth was sickening. 

On 1/17/18 we received an email from the Principal demanding the return of all Booster Club documents and the laptop because District Policy states all records belong to the school. That policy does not exist. As Treasurer bylaws state I could request past documents for review. I did and had everything in my possession from 2012 to date. 

1/18/18 I email the Special Procecutor and tell him about the situation and he asks to meet at my house the next day and takes possession of all documents. 

At this point we are not getting the parent email communication. I send the Athletic Director and Principal an email asking for clarification. The Principal proceeds to tell me due to the allegations I’ve made against the coach, relentless emails and School Board reviews that the Assistant Coach will be forwarding all of the head coaches emails to us. Not wanting to rock the boat anymore we accept it. Two weeks ago they have a game scheduled for Wednesday an hour and 20 minutes away. I’m at a facility playing ball with my younger son and on the way out I see one of the players girlfriend. I ask her if she’s going to the game. She said it was changed to Thursday. We contact another parent and an email was sent out with the rescheduled info. We did not get one. I contact the Superintendent and inform him of the situation. The Principal then responds with “as previously explained the reasons why communication is shared with you via Asst. Coach including Head Coach being advised by his attorney to avoid direct communication with you until the conclusion of this case. I will continue to facilitate and respond to any concerns you have given the circumstances” 

This was the first of us hearing about his new Attorney and decided we are no longer taking this BS and contacted the Superintendent again to say: All I’m doing is requesting to be included in the mass email that all baseball parents receive. This is not the coaches personal baseball team and his attorney should not be allowed to play a role in the communication process within a public school. The next day we are placed back on the Head Coaches contact list. 

My son was told before the first scrimmage of the season that he was tied with another player for Designated Hitter. My son was given the start at DH. We arrived an inning late and as soon the coach saw us our son was replaced with the other player. 

Facts: 
This baseball program brings in on average $60,000-$70,000 per year through athletic consumable fees and fundraising. At the end of the season the account balance is in the hundreds. So at the end of this season for 3 levels of baseball teams to play 4 years of highschool ball is over a quarter million dollars. We don’t even have a home field.

Booster club has written personal checks over $22,000 directly to the Head Coach. 

Thousands of dollars are unaccounted for above and beyond the cash from past years.

As I’m writing this the school team is at a 4 night away Tournament. We didn’t go because it’s a five hour drive and can’t miss work. They have played 3 games to this point and my son was finally put in to bat in game 4. He walked. 

 

 

 

 

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Wow, that's a lot of information.  The money portion certainly sounds fishy, but it is a "booster club".  We have a "booster club" here.  It's a group of people who raise funds for the school's athletic programs.  They spend the money how they see fit.  The coach's request money and the boosters spread it around depending on what's available.  They do have "special projects" when it's a bigger expenditure...such as the football locker room.   

When my son was in school we also had a "baseball only" booster group.  We ran a youth basketball tourney to raise money fort the baseball program....and again, the coach asked for money....we gave it to him.  He didn't control the $$$....but in most cases, he got the cash to spend on whatever he wanted.   We also had a "parents group" that ran the concession stand and handled the advertising banners on the outfield fence.  Same thing...coach asked....we paid.   

I guess to me your coach is a shyster...it's obvious that he's taking money for himself and other coaches....but is it criminal?   I don't know....because as your school said (and is the case here) the booster group isn't a "school organization".  Sounds to me like nobody in your community...lawyers, school admins, etc want anything to do with it.  All that's happened so far as it seems like it's hurt your son's playing time and alienated him from the coaching staff.

Not saying you did anything wrong.....just sure seems like you're fighting an unwinnable battle at this point.     Good luck....and hopefully the coach quits screwing with your son and his playing time.

Buckeye 2015,

I was on the fence about going with the long or short version. I went with the short...

I appreciate your response! The Booster Club never directed the Coach to request money from parents. The Booster Club had 13 other sports in addition to the baseball program. During the school year this position took a minimum of 4 hours a night to pay invoices and input deposits on the laptop. We also had to pick up from a lockbox at the school and make deposits at the bank twice a week. We literally had to make a life change to handle the Treasurer position. This Booster Club had yearly revenues over $250,000 a year.

You say in your post is it criminal? Well to me if a Head Coach deceptively requests cash money from parents to pay for a tournament and pockets the cash for personal reasons it’s criminal...

 

This has likely been going on for many years based on the info you provided. This isn't a guy who came up with this plan when you took over. This could even be some sort of "unofficial" arrangement by which coach(es) receives extra compensation and administration is in on it, or at least aware of it. Have you talked to the previous treasurer at any point to see if they were ever suspicious, or perhaps even blatantly aware? Not suggesting you do that at this point, just curious to know if you reached out to them when your suspicions first arose. There is no way he has been doing it without other parents and/or his own coaching staff getting suspicious like you did. 

And what parents are willing to hand over cash like that year after year? Am I the only one that would've been immediately suspicious of any coach/organization asking for that much cash in this day and age? In all the years of travel ball and now second year on high school team, no one has ever asked for cash (or encouraged cash). If anything, they've refused cash to avoid these types of accusations. Let this be a warning to everyone:  don't pay any fees with cash!

You did the right thing. But as we all know that doesn't always mean the easy thing. I feel so bad for your son. 

Schools that don’t control booster club money are asking for this and more importantly setting themselves up for a title IX suit.  We have had two issues at two of the largest schools in our state. In one situation a coach was doing very similar things as what was stated in this thread.  He was fired. Another school lost a title IX suit that cost them about 3 million. 

"One of the stipulations for us taking the time consuming position of Treasurer was to excuse my son from Spring Break 2016 because we booked a family reunion vacation. One of the baseball rules is Spring Break is not a break for baseball players except the last weekend. We met in the Coaches office and he agreed to it. "

This is where the whole post died for me.  Any coach who makes exceptions of team rules because of parent influence...is horrible.  He suckered you into a position so you could get special favor for your son and you took the bait.

 

Suds posted:

I don't see this as a case for the police, this is more a case for the IRS.  I would be willing to bet he did not declare that cash as income nor were taxes withheld from the payments.

I am with you. We had a similar situation. A man had been running the booster club for years before we as parents took it over. Once we discovered somethings in question, we asked for specific money back or we notify the IRS. We got our money in question back.

Now, I also agree with the spring break thing. I would have walked away from the situation when problems first arose, I would not have put my son in that situation.

JMO

 

More like the seedy underbelly of HS coaching.  We had a similar situation at son's HS.  Took the district 10 years to figure out what the guy was.  They finally caught him doing something, by accident, prosecuted and fired him.  Little good it did the kids and parents that had to put up with him for 10 years.  

 

we had a similar situation at a school near us,  some of our friends went there.    The booster club realized that the head coach had likely embezzled over 30k from the booster club funds and he was let go,  he also walked away with thousands of dollars worth of equipment,  pitching machines etc.    They were so embarrassed they didn't press charges but changed the bylaws that all money requests from now on had to go thru the booster club,  previously the coach had access to the funds and could spend it on his own.   

First of all - I would love to know how the baseball booster club manages to rake in that much $ every year?  We have a group of parents trying to organize a booster club - mostly to get better control over the fundraising. Coach has managed it all in the past - with mixed results AND not near that kind of income. Probably because his communication skills are awful and some of his fundraising techniques are somewhat suspicious with no checks and balances in place (like having the boys sell candy at school on a cash basis).  I really don't think he's shady, but his poor communication makes it impossible for kids and parents to understand what he's asking for and what the expectation is.

Second - yep, this sounds shady.  I hope you've retained an attorney. And I agree with whoever said this sounds more like a case for the IRS.  The local news media might be interested as well, but that's opening a can of worms.

Steve A. posted:

We have a local County News Publication who I am sure would be very interested in a story like this. The pressure would ramp up & action would be taken.

I almost suggested he contact local media in my original post. Maybe wait until your kid is finished with his senior season to make that call. Choose the newspaper or TV source locally that tends to run these types of exposé stories. You will need to be prepared for any backlash in doing so. If you're in a small town and this coach is a revered figure, you may not want to do anything further.

This has been going on since 2012 when he started. The previous Head Coach was allowed to resign after stealing over $10,000 and at that time the team was not involved with a Booster Club. That coach has since moved onto private school. One of the first statements out of the accused our sons Freshman year was “I’ll never accept cash” and explained how the previous coach stole money. Two weeks later the accused requests $20 cash for a Summer Ball cap. That’s the day the red flag raised.

We do not have a team website with game day information and updates. Everything is done via email to all 3 levels. Matter of fact this particular Head Coach is the Head Coach for all 3 levels. Fresh, JV and Varsity. All other coaches are Assistants. He makes the lineup and all. I’ve never seen anything like it... The Assistants look as if they are being dragged around by their baseballs.

I’ve requested the accused be placed on Administrative Leave a few times to the Superintendent and Board Services to no avail. I find it unbelievable that this District would allow a Teacher/Coach to continue full duty while under investigation for a State Jail Felony.

Walking away from this after the Spring Break thing is EXACTLY what the accused wants. In prior years when he wanted a kid to voluntarily quit the punishment was 25 miles. He added 10 more to make sure my son quit.

We’ve heard through friends that the previous Treasurer was questioning transactions but never came forward and good thing she didn’t because they would have squashed her. The accused requests and I believe persuaded the Booster Club to have only baseball parents be Treasurer. 14 other sports were involved. This gives him opportunity because no parent would ever question him. That’s were he screwed up because no parent in basketball would have ever questioned the tournament cash.

Baseball parents pay an athletic consumable payment fee. For the last 4 years we’ve paid $1200/$800/$600/$600. This covers cleats, turf shoes, socks, pants, batting shirts, practice shirts, shorts, caps. As Treasurers we had access to the vendor invoices and in 2016 parents were overcharged. Actual line item cost per vendor invoices was $17,730.00. That's an overcharge of $9,270.00. Also why would parents through athletic consumable fee payments pay $5,761.00 for coaches consumables? I thought this was for the student athletes? We ALL pay for our own consumables. Why would the coaches be any different? Booster Club also paid for “coaches conferences” and per diem for all. $9,790.00 for three years. These line items were never made public or on the annual budget. Why the secret?

This could be of interest for the IRS if he’s found guilty.

I suspect media will be involved at some point  

Update: My son was given the opportunity to bat twice in the 5 game away tournament. As I said he walked and he also had a base hit to left. Am I a disgruntled parent? Maybe. Wouldn’t you be?

 

Sounds like a very unfortunate situation.  All in all, sounds like there is likely very much merit to your accusations.  I have to say, though, there are bits and pieces that just strike me as odd.  I will admit I didn't have the attention span to closely comb the entire back story.

It seems to me that it wouldn't be your position to ask that he be specifically placed on administrative leave to the board, no matter how valid the case is.  I could see that you would provide the findings and ask/demand that action be taken but not so sure about you being the right person to specify those actions.  

Regarding things like "coaches consumables"... we are in a completely different world but we sure as heck aren't going to ask coaches to pay for their gear that they have to wear in games and practices.  Our assistants are volunteer and get paid zero to commit to a ton of hours, go thru coach training, concussion protocol, CPR, get licensed to drive van, etc..  So, yeah, I expect that the school at least pick up the $80 tab for their shirts, socks, belts, pants and pullover.  They (AD/admin) have to figure out what bucket that comes from and balance it with the ASB deficit it creates.

Now, that said, all monies are handled by the ASB and overseen by the AD.  Everything has to be accounted for to a painstaking degree.  Heck, our team mom volunteer that handles the snack bar has to fill out paperwork with the $50-$100 bucks she makes selling gatorade, soda's, candy and seeds every home game.

Never Give Up posted:

 

Baseball parents pay an athletic consumable payment fee. For the last 4 years we’ve paid $1200/$800/$600/$600. This covers cleats, turf shoes, socks, pants, batting shirts, practice shirts, shorts, caps. As Treasurers we had access to the vendor invoices and in 2016 parents were overcharged. Actual line item cost per vendor invoices was $17,730.00. That's an overcharge of $9,270.00. Also why would parents through athletic consumable fee payments pay $5,761.00 for coaches consumables? I thought this was for the student athletes? We ALL pay for our own consumables. Why would the coaches be any different? Booster Club also paid for “coaches conferences” and per diem for all. $9,790.00 for three years. These line items were never made public or on the annual budget. Why the secret?

 

Update: My son was given the opportunity to bat twice in the 5 game away tournament. As I said he walked and he also had a base hit to left. Am I a disgruntled parent? Maybe. Wouldn’t you be?

Sounds to me like you have a grossly underfunded program, at least from the standpoint of the school district's contribution.  Around here, the districts fund the basic costs of the program.  Booster clubs fund "extras."  With those parental contributions I bet you don't get much participation from low income kids/families.

I see no problem with the booster club paying for coaches uniforms, travel, hotels, classes, etc.  Heck, the school district ought to be paying for it.  But, if they don't, the booster club should.  But, that doesn't give the HC a license to use it as his slush fund. 

And NO, you do not sound like a disgruntled parent.  

I agree with several above. Find a hungry reporter with an ax to grind (social media is good for this). With the paper trail, IRS would be your next step.

After reading this story, I believe this is the main reason our school does not allow a booster club. The other reason is so the AD has free reign to redirect ticket revenue, sponsorship dollars and donations to the sports he prefers without anyone looking over his shoulder. While football and basketball have the latest and greatest gear year after year, until this year, baseball had played with the same uniforms for 6 years. And they only got new jerseys for varsity this year. JV and freshman go hand me downs. Everyone has to buy there own pants. Oh yeah, we pay $20k a year to go to this fine institution.

So we have a booster club that does the standard fundraising.  Mainly concessions and an annual gala.  They divvy up the money as they see fit, presumably by who man's the concession stand.  It's not that transparent.  Baseball never really participated.    

But in years past, our baseball program had it's own fundraising (like most other sports as well).  They did both a fall fundraising -- selling pies/cakes for holidays and a spring fundraiser.  Raised a lot of money.  Most subsidized player swag -- hats, sweats, cleats, etc.  Then a spring trip -- hotels and a meal or two.  Maybe some gear.  And I fully expect some coaches stipends to attend conferences and such.  Not transparent, but not really necessary because you could see the money going to the kids.  The only issue was fundraising in the fall, before tryouts.  I am sure some kids who fund raised and didn't make it were upset. 

It sounds to me like everyone is in on it, even the DA and the SI.  Like you said in cases like these the person accused would be placed on leave immediately.  The coach found out about it right away and punished your son, hoping you'd drop it.  When you didn't and kept pushing further, he tried to play the good guy and give your son some hope, but the investigation was still going on so the coach reverted back to punishing your son.  I don't get it.  If the school wanted to get more money into his pocket, just pay him more.  A winning coach should be paid close to AD money.  

Have you gone straight to:

Texas University Interscholastic League

PO Box 8028 1701 Manor Rd Austin, TX 78722
Phone: (512) 471-5883Fax: (512) 471-5908

www.uiltexas.org

I'd imagine they'd take action immediately.  They could find 20 broad rule violations to suspend his coaching license.  

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Never Give Up posted:

I also believe the Booster Club should pay for coaches gear to a certain point. That figure of $5761.00 is for one season for 5 coaches. Don’t get me wrong they look good but damn...

You can definitely see where the money goes during school year for the most part. Except for that $4625.00

Yeah, that amount is crazy.  Again, particularly in my public school world.

hsbaseball101 posted:

... I don't get it.  If the school wanted to get more money into his pocket, just pay him more.  A winning coach should be paid close to AD money.  ...

 

Again, not the world most of us HS coaches live in...  a public school varsity HC in our area of Calif. makes a small stipend of somewhere between $2500 and $4000 per year.  It doesn't matter how good you are, how much you win or how long you have been there.  I kick back about 1/2 of my stipend to my two volunteer assistants and most of what is left is spent on team/field supplies that get missed with the initial request to boosters or to something a particular kid needs and cannot afford.

Sorry, sort of veering from the OP but somewhat relevant to the remark.  Paying a coach close to AD money isn't even remotely on the table at public schools unless they are getting the bulk of their income from their primary teaching duties.

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As a former treasurer 4 things jump out here - 1)  Cash was changing hands.  That should be avoided anywhere possible - because it is very hard to document it and as a treasurer documentation is everything.  The concession should be double counted and signed off by two people immediately after the game.   Same with all other fund raisers. 2)  There should have been a counter signer for all  expenditures.  Nothing should ever be disbursed without a independent verification of the legitimacy of the expense. 3)  Budget or lack thereof.  It was not clear that there was a budget to document anticipated expenses which allows for cash to "disappear" without knowing that expenses were actually incurred and paid.  4)  It should have been clear by the way it was organized who was allowed to authorize expenditures and to what purpose.  This sounded like a wild west show.

On the other hand a shocking number of people do not have a clear understanding of how to organize much of anything financial.  It was always amazing to me that successful people could not understand a budget and didn't care to try.  This carefree ignorance makes malfeasance much easier and likely.  "Trust me" is a two word statement that should always receive a two word reply that goes something like this...."F$$k you."  There are other variations of this theme for those a little less confrontational - but the sentiment should be the same.

As noted HS coaches do not make huge money.  Frequently it is a teachers salary and few thousand to coach.  Most probably find themselves in the $50-$60k range all added up.  That makes the temptation to snag another few thousand bucks much higher.  If the guy is edgy on top of that - you can almost bank that cash floating around is going to disappear.

Finally - Booster clubs are a nasty bit of business.  Often outside of the school systems jurisdiction, and if poorly conceived and documented they a ripe for corruption of all kinds all justified by "doing it for the kids" which apparently is a force field that prevents people from asking tough questions about what is going on.  In my experience unless you want to jump into a Portable Toilet - stay away from them at all costs. 

 

This whole story is realllly off. The part where you said you said you would only volunteer if your kid was allowed special treatment was pretty much where it became clear you were looking to gain something. Not saying the coach is right (if everything said is true), but that mentality shows this probably isn't as black or white as it seems.

 

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