Just wanted to give a quick update and say thanks for all the encouragement. Son started throwing and hitting in early Feb. and has been working at a hitting facility not to far from school running the cages and giving a few hitting lessons.
He came home Thur. for a few days of the Easter break and as soon as he walked in he sat down with us and told us he was done, too much pain in the leg where they took the tendon out, too much pain in the arm and he's just tired of hurting. He had a scheduled appointment on Fri. with the Dr. at Tulane who did the surgery so I said well talk to the Dr. tomorrow and tell him. Came home and said Doc said it's gonna hurt and its gonna be sore it's all part of the healing process. I said well that seems encouraging and he said yea, he said it will be sore and hurt for a few months as the work load increases. Then says I'm gonna finish my therapy but I really am done it's time.
I said well and he said look dad it's my life and I said yes it is and I hope you have a plan. He said well I can tell you that I am not ready to be done with baseball but I'm done playing, one thing I realized while giving these kids lessons is that I can see I'm making a difference, I enjoy teaching them and I enjoy them getting it. I'm gonna keep on working doing that and get a teaching degree and get into coaching that way I can stay involved with the game and hopefully teach some kids what I know and hopefully make a difference with some of them. I smiled while holding back a tear.
This game really is a wonderful game and does really teach life lessons. One thing my wife always says is you just gotta love them baseball boys and as usual she's right .
Son left about 3:00 to head back to school and work, came back about 3:30 because he left his mitt and bat. He just looked at us and laughed then told his brother they ain't yours yet.
I was a lurker here for 5 years before I signed up and it took another year before I replied to a post but the things I learned here well you can't put a price on it. Good thing is I have another ball player, 10 years younger but more of a baller than his big brother. So I will have more FUN this time around and know what to do and when to do it this time around thanks to this site and you guys.
Back to lurking for a few years, Thanks guys and gals!