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To piggyback on IFD's post...
First, Congrats on having a son who wants to high achieve in both venues.
Second, Academics/Athletics are not a zero sum game.
Third, On the other hand, like most things in life there may be tradeoff's, prices to be paid, and risks that are incurred in making that goal happen.
Fourth, No one can decide if those elements are right for your son and you except you and your son. Some simply are not willing to play the "game" and take the steps/adjustments that are involved in making both happen....some are relentless.
In a nutshell...there are schools that will and do encourage high academics and high athletics together. There are schools that bend athletics some for academics. Then there are programs where it is simply impractical or impossible to play ball and fully complete some high academic discplines. That is your choice, not an either or. You can choose one to blend and bend, OR you can choose one or the other. That is a choice.
Options for including high academic discplines may include but are not limited to trading down in level of athletics or academics, summer classes, limited school selection, taking 5 years to graduate, alternate majors, taking specific classes AFTER one graduates.
I am not as clear on how the engineering "game" is played but we are finding out that there is a whole new "game" and strategy that is played when it comes to medical school entrance, and it is one that may actually be unaffected and perhaps even enhanced by collegiate sports participation.
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