Originally Posted by Ted22:
A pretty decent D1 College head coach recently told a player I know that his fastball-curveball differential should be 15mph. Player throws 84-86 and his curveball is 64-66. Coach said he would like to see the curveball at 70+. Is this a common preference among scouts?
You must’ve meant 94-96 ‘cause everyone knows all DI pitchers throw 90+. 
This sound a lot like the conversation about FB/CU differentials, and from what we know so far, there isn’t enough information to make a judgment about what’s “common” and what’s not. Just like there are many different ways to throw a CU, there are many different ways to throw a curve, so trying to make a one size fits all statement is pretty much impossible.
In order to really understand the context of what that coach said, you’d have to have heard the entire conversation.