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Originally posted by eaglefan05:
Sorry I am sure this answer has already been posted..looking for a quick answer if possible. Son is currently playing D1(freshman)...getting ideas of maybe wanting to play elsewhere.(long story)..We understand he would need to sit out a year. Question is can he go ahead and contact other schools(coaches) now? Is there a rule against it? He commited early so there are a couple schools that he is interested in that he did not have any contact with while in high school. He may decide to stay but wanted to see if there may be interest in him before making the decision to leave. I appreciate any info you can offer..Thank you
After re-reading your post, I paid particular attention to the sentence I put in bold type.
I would discourage him from taking that approach!
His reasons for thinking about leaving should not be swayed by any interest other schools might have in him ,IMO.
If he's a good player, there will be a place for him, but he needs to really decide what he wants in his next school that he is not getting now.
If he's upset with playing time, then sitting out a year could be the worst thing for him.
From a financial standpoint, if he's on scholarship, it's not likely that another D1 is going to give him a better deal than he's got. In fact, it might be tough to get any money in the 'sit' year?
If you're willing to share more of the 'long story', you might get some advice from some of us that have been through the same or similar situations?
In any case, as mentioned, he won't know what interest other schools might have until he gets the release, and then there's really no turning back.
There is one other option.
You could have a trusted Coach(maybe his Summer Coach?) or scout make some initial inquiries for him. That was suggested to us, and we did take advantage of that before getting the official release. But again, that can be risky also.
Good Luck to your Son! It's a tough decision.
My old boss told me something that may be an appropriate analogy for this situation?
"The best time to fire someone is the very first time that thought crosses your mind"
The logic being that if it is bad enough to make you think seriously about it, then it probably isn't going to go away.