DLOCK15 and BK35,
This is like dating. The schools are interested in you, but no offer ("marriage proposal") was made. They want to know you are interested in them. Reciprocate. Make a date.
Go see the school, spend some time with the coaches and team. Rinse and repeat for all the D3 schools you are interested in.
Depending on the D3 coach/school, they may ask you if this is your #1 school. In exchange for the coaches support through Admissions, they may ask you to commit and apply ED/EA. If a coach asks you about ED then you need to be sure this is the right school, and exactly where you are in their recruiting/baseball plans....otherwise you may want to consider applying RD (regular decision).
Getting an overnight invitation by a coach is very good thing. Follow up on it immediately, and show them you are genuinely interested if you are.
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BK35 said....One other D3 acted surprised that my son was even talking to them and that he should shoot higher
These are all D3.
HF is mostly a D3 showcase. THere are many, many D3 levels. Truthfully, I wouldn't get too caught up in that coaches comment. Every Fall this message board is full of posts from freshmen parents about how difficult it is for their son to earn starting spots at the D3 level. If your son feels strongly about D1 over D3 then possibly he should pursue it. But, be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.