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Originally posted by infielddad:
If your son has no DI offers at this point in his senior year and thinks he should include planning for the MLB draft in 3-4 years in his choice of college, my only thought is that is a huge mistake.
He has only recently been getting offers, and we are waiting on a financial package being put together by a west coast D1. The coach said it might take a month before he can offer it to us. I have no clue how nice an offer it will be, but we are certainly looking forward to it even though I am not sure the school/location is the right fit for him.
I believe going to the recent PG showcase in Ft Myers may have also sparked some interest as we have been getting more inquiries about his HS schedule and requests for more info on him. However he still has not hit anything above 88, so the interest is more limited to those who have actually seen him compete. I had one coach say he was only able to offer him a position if he could hit 90 in the next few months. Fortunately a scout he was familiar with (who watched my son) said he would be in the 90's soon, so he has changed his tune a little bit. Personally I don't believe he will be in the 90's for at least another year, but what do I know, I'm just a father.
Well, I'll give this another try largely because our son was in a similar spot and I can relate to what you are thinking, saying and the pressures you are feeling.
I don't mean to say our son didn't have interest. He did. Coach Aoki at Columbia, now ND,was straight up. Our son was his #2 MI, the #1 on his list accepted and was coming to Columbia and he needed to get the football coach to support our son as a 2 sport guy. The football coach didn't think our son was strong enough to do 2 sports in college and wanted a choice. That wasn't the only interest, but the other situations were similar...he was not the top guy and the guys ranked above him accepted.
Not sure if it is important but, as contrasted with your posts, our son only had exposure through the Stanford Camp. He was a football/baseball kid in HS and did no travel or showcases.
If your son has interest from a West Coast DI, that is wonderful. On the other hand, has your son visited, does he know the coaches, team, school intangibles, has he seen them play, seen how the coaches coach and all the factors that would be involved in whether this is a good fit for your son.
To be honest, West Coast DI's are in the WCC, WAC Big West and Pac10 and they could recruit all the pitching they want and have leftovers just from Southern CA, alone. So, my antenna would be up. If your son has not visited and you want to PM, I will be happy to tell you everything I know about the school, unless it is where our son coaches.
If your son wants to see early season high level, DIII baseball with at least 4 guys who might be drafted, and pitching staffs with multiple guys with velocities at 90-92, click on the Trinity/BSC game video tonight at 7pm CST. If Klimesh in on the mound for TU, he can reach 94 and Lucero is an 86-88 lefty who is very good, Panozzo has pitched in the Cape and TU's Solomon was the conference pitcher of the year as a sophomore. I am assuming BSC is the same and their 1B/2B can hit any pitching at any level. They are good.
Vector, here is my advice and I will shut up and stop posting:
Work with your son to secure a good fit where he is accepted in school and the coaching staff, who are quality and proven, want him. Fit means academics and baseball. Get that secured and take away all the anxiety, indecision and ability of coaches to blow smoke or be in control of where things are going.
Once that is done, things might change. It did for our son. From the time he graduated until the end of July, the JC coach at CSM, one of the best in CA. saw him for one inning and made him a top recruit who he felt would get multiple offers after one year. One WCC program and one Big West program offered him visits and money once they saw him and learned that either through the draft or academic admissions, players who committed were not coming.
At those points, our son was in control, not the coaches.
With all of that, he still chose the DIII, and never regretted it for baseball, academics, friends, quality of life and quality of his experience.
Work with your son so he might see the importance of him being able to control the next several months feeling assured he has a good "fit." If he gets to 88-90, then he gets to control what might result for recruiting.
If he doesn't and all of the "interest" turns out to be nothing more than interest, your son is still in the best situation possible and where his skills and talents probably belong.
Good luck. Thank you for sharing in your last post the anxiety and pressure involved. You and your family are not alone. That pressure/hope/belief combines with words off the tongues of college coaches in ways that create confusion, uncertainty, false hopes and deep disappointment. Got that!!!
If your son and you don't take control of this by being starkly honest and realistic, it likely gets more problematic from here.
It is funny how that changes once you and your son have control, rather than feeling his future is out of your control or being controlled.
I wish you and especially your son all the best and will follow the next few months with interest.