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We have had quite a few years of sending our son off to baseball fields and towns including Alaska and the Cape. He has spent time in Yakima, WA (first pro summer), South Bend, IN (second pro year), Tucson, AZ (spring training), and Lancaster, CA (which oft times feels like a foreign country if you are from other SoCal locations). But after visiting him and his lovely wife for a week in Mobile, AL I found this past good-bye so very difficult ... shed more tears on the way to the airport than usual, shed tears again on the plane, and am still tearing up periodically when I think of him. My best guess is that IF we get to go back to see him, it won't be for at least 2 1/2 or 3 months, if we even do go back (something about hurricane season and difficulty with the air travel for me) ...

Anybody else find themselves in the same situation where you feel sadder than usual even when you have been in similar situations with your children? Is it the distance? The time between visits?

Fortunately AJ and his wife live in So Cal during the off season and that makes it a little easier but I still feel so sad ... cry
Mary Ann * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * [i]"The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." Deuteronomy 31:8 [8/21/08][/i]
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Anybody else find themselves in the same situation where you feel sadder than usual even when you have been in similar situations with your children? Is it the distance? The time between visits?

Mary Ann, I think it's all of those things and more. Also, remember that this past year was one of great challenge for you with your health concerns as well. I think coming through an emotional time like that leaves us with a grateful feeling for our blessings.

Also, this is really a new stage in AJ and wife's life. I think it's only normal that you would feel so touched leaving them after getting to be a part of it for a short while.

We're still hopeful to get down to Chatanooga in July. We're headed up to Michigan for a long weekend of baseball the weekend before.... but going to try and save enough gas money to go south the following weekend! Smile I'll let you know!
FBM, I have always loved reading your posts, you are wise and eloquent, always.
Certain stresses (illness, etc) do leave us in a different mindset. I have personally struggled with that and find that I am more mindful of the "time" I have and how I make use of it. What was important becomes more important.
and..."parting does make such sweet sorrow"...
...at least you got him married off! Wink
I still have that to "worry" about!
FBM - I know how you feel. Sent my college freshman off to school last August. He is only 2 hours away. I did really well all year long. He came home last week for the first time since Christmas. Got to spend a whole week together. I have been so down since son left to go back to school for the summer. He has a part-time job and is playing summer ball. I was really hoping he would be home for the summer. This has been the hardest good-bye. Our family was complete again for one week. Now, it's just back to the 3 of us. It's also been difficult because we won't get to go watch much summer ball -- the tournaments are too far away. I guess hubby and I will get lots of yard work done. Ha! Ha!

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