"if he doesnt steal third they might still be playing. "
Or, if Rincon didn't serve up a big juicy meatball to Sierra for a 3-run homer in the same 1/3 inning! Oops, that's mean, but that 4-run 1/3 inning was the ugliest part of a pretty good performance by the Twins in the series - won the first game, and lost two of the next three in extra innings.
When I watched the replays of Jeter's phantom tag of Jones, it was frustrating to clearly see that it should not have been out number 3 to end the inning, but also I couldn't help having the same reaction you mentioned - Jeter really knows how to play the game, and do the little things that turn out big.