Re: "Getting Discovered" at showcases or camps:
2018 has (had?) sights on HOOPS and/or baseball for college. We went to a mid-major BASKETBALL camp this weekend. Physically at 6-7/205 he fit right in, competed hard, and hustled. Both I, and he, noticed throughout the day as the coaching staff from host college and guest coaches were pulling the occasional kid off to a corner of the gym to chat them up. You know the deal. Usually they were kids I too had noticed as having skills and projectability at next level. But after 1.5 days of ballin' 2018 only got the cursory handshake and the "thanks for coming" back slap at end of camp. Hey, that's life.
TURN BACK CLOCK ONE WEEK: 2018 was at a mid-major BASEBALL camp. He is a PO. Was starter on mound for afternoon game and threw 2-innings, mediocre outing, but host school PC pulled him aside after outing and with game still going on, talked with him for 45-minutes, straight. This was in addition to the 10-mins same guy gave him upon walking on the field at beginning of camp. In all honesty, this type of stuff happens to him often at baseball camps/showcases at TARGET schools (mid-majors, some academic D-1s). It has NEVER happened to him at a BASKETBALL camp/showcase; anywhere, at any level.
On the drive home 2018 pointed out the difference in his reception by coaches on the baseball diamond versus on the BASKETBALL court. It hit him hard. Real hard. One of those "Ahaaaaaaa!!!" life moments. Looks like the hoops in college ship has sailed? Will still play for HS next two years, but year around will now be 100% devoted to pitching, and no longer pitching AND hoops.
Sobering moment for son. It hurt me to see his "Hoops Dreams" take such a hard hit. But it is only by going out and tossing your hat in the ring at these events and competing with others that you see what you are made of and where your true talents and gifts lie. Or not lie.