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How do you tell when its time to stop?
Well, obviously it isn't by coming here and reading about how you can't be successful at the next level, by people who have never seen you in a game
All kidding aside, I think that the decision to quit is entirely the player's decision. After all, scouts have been known to be wrong occasionally. I believe that he should follow his dreams until he hits the block wall ... not just a fork in the road. I have heard people criticize kids who are playing indy ball ... why doesn't he just give it up? why doesn't he see the writing on the wall? Perhaps it is because the writing on the wall is in a language he doesn't understand.
And if these kids want to go out there and play for a few hundred dollars a month, as long as they don't have obligations that can impact a child's future (i.e., family responsibilities), I say just let them do what they want. I know one mom whose older son was the typical 'organizational player' in the White Sox organization and she told him several years ago that it was time to hang up the cleats. He didn't follow her suggestion but chose instead to keep playing until there were no more options for him. He came to that block wall and hung up the cleats ... but it was his decision to stop looking for another place to play ... and I personally think we need to just let our young people follow those dreams as long as they are not responsible for others or draining someone else's wallet while they are doing it.
Money isn't everything ... and altho $80K is a great entry level salary (unless you are trying to buy a home in So Cal), some guys aren't ready for that yet. I am sure our son would make a heck of a lot more money if he finished his chem degree and got a job in the "real" world ... but he is doing what he loves, not necessarily what others think he should do.
Maybe I look at things differently because I was raised by one who had me convinced that her dreams were my dreams and then had to deal with the emotional consequences of not continuing down that road. Maybe that is why I enjoy watching these young men who are so determined get out there and play the game they love. If and when it is time to hang up the cleats, I believe they will know in their deepest being. Until then I say ... play ball.