Is all of this specialized training we encounter at younger and younger ages a good thing? Don't get me wrong...I have a ton of respect for most of the private instructors out there. And I also think, if its my money why would you care how I spend it? But where does it end?
My older son started pitching lessons at age 9. No, not so he could get a college scholarship, but because my wife was sick-and-tired of watching him walk (or hit) the whole lineup...she reasoned "some kids get piano lessons, my boy is gonna get some pitching lessons." We got lucky and randomly (accidentally actually) picked a great instructor. After about 2 lessons, the improvement was dramatic. He/we stuck with him through HS.
But then as he began to grow, he went from being pretty fast to pretty **** slow...should I have hired a "speed" coach?
As time wore on, he joined a pretty good travel team but couldn't really get into the hitting lineup, so we hired a hitting coach. His hitting improved soon thereafter and he got to hit and play a position when he didn't pitch. That was fun and sure seemed worth it...again, nothing to do with beyond HS, just trying to help him "play" more.
But he was still growing like crazy and slow as molasses...should I have hired a "speed" coach?
By then, his travel team coach (a dad) was getting tired and grey (me too!) and all of us parents thought we should "hire" a team coach to make them better. So we did...a former D1 player. I think that really helped them achieve some lofty goals...came in 2nd in the AAU Nationals.
But geez, the boy was growing and slow...should I hire a "speed" coach or not?
Pretty soon, a bunch of scouts noticed him and some folks told us he needed to bulk up...gain some strength. By now we knew he was going to pitch after HS...so we hired a conditioning coach. I thought that guy did a great job.
He was not growing so fast anymore and was starting to steal bases in HS...but he still was not a speedster...maybe I should have hired a speed coach?
Now he's in college and I don't have to hire anyone for anything...that all comes for free now (well, sort of). No speed coach needed really anymore, he's a *******' pitcher...is that even a "real" baseball player? And he runs 5 miles every morning anyways. But now his younger brother is a 13-year old who's actually pretty darn good. Good pitcher, good hitter, good fielder. He's had only a few lessons for hitting and pitching up to now...but he seems to pick it up on his own...and I'm probably better at helping him than with his older brother. But now the question is as he approaches HS...should I ramp it up? Hire a pitching coach and a hitting coach and a conditioning coach and a "speed" coach? Everyone else seems to be...maybe I'd better do that in order to keep up with the Joneses?
This is the cycle we all get into...is it worth it? Again, I say why do you care how I spend MY money? Let me hire someone if I want. But how do I make the "right" choices as a parent? Who do I hire? When is enough, enough?
I think its an interesting question that many, MANY young parents are struggling with. What are your thoughts?
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