PGStaff:
Over the past 3 games, 2 in the field he was 4-8 with 3-2b and 4 rbi. Then as DH he had an "O"fer. I don't think it is mechanical. The weekend before it was similar, he started the season 7-11 playing the field and then 1-5 as a DH.
I think it is a "comfort thing" which was the reason for the question. For someone that has played in the field all his life, being a DH is like having a "new position" hence the question.
ClevelandDad:
My question was regarding being a DH. It is not the same as going out to the field, you sit on the bench most of the game and have to be prepared to be ready 4-5 times over a 3-hour period.
To prosume that he is being asked to DH rather than play the field due to defensive weakness is normal.
My son has always been a very good defensive player. He has yet to make an error this year (7 of 10 games)and has prevented many errant throws from being errors. Last season in over 400 chances he made 5 errors. This is not a matter of losing a position but rather learning a new position.
I was looking for help in the area of:
1. keeping focused while sitting on the bench.
2. keeping your head clear of negative thoughts as you wait for your next turn at bat (when you are used to keeping your focus for defense).
3. staying loose, maintaining enough tension to react yet loose enough to swing, when you are used to being on the field.
4. the line between being a teammate on the bench while maintaining readiness to do your job.
Being a DH is fundementally different when one has learned the game being in the field. Some may gravitate to it, others may need to make adjustments. My question was looking for help as he makes an adjustment to a roll that is new for him.
We as parents are our kids support, teachers, mentors, friends and confidants. We entrust them to the game, their coaches and team mates. However as parents we are the ones that generally know them best and are the ones that will be there to point them in the right direction when help is needed. To be effective, I am doing what I can to ask for help and to be open to the wisdom and experience of those that have come before me.