BPain,
I suggest that your stance may be causing part of your problem with receiving. When a catcher sets up on the balls of his feet with his toes pointing towards the pitcher he has only one direction he can move, forward. He has no ability to move his midline left or right of center without leaning. This will have 2 negative effects.
(1) it will look to the umpire behind him that most pitches on the corners of the plate are out of his reach and will be made to look like balls.
(2) Since you have no ability to shift your midline left or right to keep the glove closer to your midline when you catch it you run the risk of having gthe higher MPH pitches pull your glove/arm off the plate. Again making good close strikes look like balls.
Take a look at the photo album linked below. Look at the first pic titled "Jay Receiving-Cropped 3" It is Pic #1 in the Summer Camp Album
Notice the feet in complete contact with ground. Toes pointed up the baselines. His glove hand set with thumb at 3 o-clock, fingers to the sky. This stance gives him tghe ability to shift his weight, and midline, and glove, left or right and keep the glove near his middle.
He is NOT sitting on his heels. He is in a powerfull athletic position.
The thumb starting at 3 o-clock is much more of a neutral position and will allow you to get the glove to pitches at all parts of the plate. Setting up a 1 o-clock I have found has you too committed to pitches to the glove side and will tend to make you late to pitches down the middle or to the backhand. Which I think is one of the issues you are trying to reslove.
Take a look at the pic and let me know what you think.
Receiving No-Man on