Son is RHP/C/OF and 1 of 3 freshman to make his HS varsity team. When the varsity team was selected, he was one of 6 pitchers and backup C but 2 additional upperclassmen pitchers were cleared to return making a staff of 8. HS ball just doesn't provide many innings per week and the pitching staff consists of 3 SR, 3 JR, and 2 Fr. Neither my son nor the other Fr. pitcher has pitched more than 2 innings.
My son is frustrated with not playing after playing all the time in travel ball. He did pitch 2 innings (the opposing team was bad and not really a challenge) and has had one at-bat in 9 games.
To add to his frustration....Due to upperclassmen injury, one of the other freshman has worked his way into the starting lineup for now till the upperclassmen returns.
Now do I think he should play....probably not. The other freshman is better all-around player but it doesn't help with the after-game conversations at home.
I work to feed him positive comments so he works hard in Varsity practice and strives to keep improving. I also mention his practice time will prep him for summer travel ball and next year's season when he will be expected to contribute on Varsity.
The JV coach does plan to bring him down for JV games that do not conflict with Varsity games. This was a recent decision so we'll see how the next few weeks go with this arrangement.
Any thoughts on how to help my son's frustration?
Also would like hear your thoughts on significant playing time on JV versus minimal playing time on Varsity for HS Freshman.
Thanks.
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