Sending out letters to Colleges is an exciting time for every player and for the parents as well. Casting a wide net to many colleges is a tried and true method that many if not most have attempted. Why not, right? But what many parents and players need to do is sit down and assess what talent each school they intend to reach out to has, i.e. look at the team's archives, current roster, read the bio's to learn about the talent level of existing pitchers, after November early signing date check the sites to see who've they signed. I promise that spending time at minimum on a team's website will give you a very, very good idea of where your son's talents really fall. Honestly. Sometimes it could be a humble pill to swallow but why not contact coaches/colleges where perhaps your son has a real shot of one day playing? American Idol has taught us all over the years that honesty really IS the best policy!
It's been too long on here to remember WHO said it to me but it went something like this ~~ find a school where the coach see's real value in your son. Sometimes it may not be THE school you all thought he'd find but if they find you then open your eyes and ears. Let him go where they like him. He'll be much happier.
One last thing in regards to TPM. There are still a few of us HSBBW Old Timers still hanging around here hoping to pass on any advice and/or wisdom we hope can possibly help others. She certainly has always had a special way of delivering her own message at times....lol, but nevertheless you can take one thing to the bank - her advice and experience is straight and to the point. Everything she has learned about this sport, good and bad, has been as a loving, devoted Mom who like many parents rode this ride each day with her son. Watching him rise to MLB. If you don't like her style or method, don't take it personally. Relax. Breathe. This is supposed to be a place where we can come escape to after a long hard day. If you look for trouble and the worse in someone, most likely you will find it and you'll hate coming here. Instead try to understand where other's are coming from and that's usually with good intentions to share and help others. ![tater](https://community.hsbaseballweb.com/fileSendAction/fcType/12/fcOid/2982475074710548/fodoid/2982475074710549/imageType/MINI_THUMBNAIL/inlineImage/true/2056080091avatar)
Good luck to your son and I hope he finds the dream school that you both love and enjoy!
YGD