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Rule #1 - get on a team where you will play ALL the time if possible.
Rule #2 - refer to Rule # 1.
The most important part for a young ballplayer is to play. Baseball is the ultimate skill sport and it takes thousands of repetitions to become good at it. Yes playing against higher level competition and having higher level team members may help in that regard but it is not the most important part. Speed and strength training is also very important but that can be done outside of the actual playing of the sport.
When your skills have developed by playing in the summers, fall, and spring as much as you can along with your speed and strength training, you can target schools of choice by attending their camps. If you want a broader approach in addition to that, you can attend one or more showcases that have multiple coaches there to view your talents.
It would be nice if we all could just play the game and have the coach of our dream school magically show up while we happen to being playing at our best against some top talent on the other team. It does not work that way. If you are a northern player, for example, and want to play in the south, southern coaches are not going to be flying up in the spring to watch one of your games. You need to place yourself before them.
When you are in front of them, you then need to impress them. Your 60 time, your arm strength, your fielding ability, your overall baseball skills, your hitting ability, your ability to hit for power. The intangibles also stick out like being the first to arrive, the last to leave, the most enthusiast, the best hustler, willing to dive for a ball, stealing a base, getting your uniform dirty while making a play, and so forth. Put yourself in the coach's shoes. What would impress you?
Recruiting comes down to two things - talent plus exposure. Missing either piece will end your baseball career after high school. Do everything in your power to develop your talent until it is time to show someone what you can do. When you are ready, place yourself in front of them and then play your heart out.