Ducbollea -
Having just gone through this whole process with my son, here are my best words of wisdom.
1. - Most of what comes in the mail in the form of camps is just that. An invitation to a camp. This is how teams pay for trips to southern areas and/or other things. Camps are usually fundraisers for the school baseball program.
However - if the school interests you then consider attending but unless you have a lot of money, be choosy.
2. While coaches can't contact you directly they can send you info. Fill out the questionairres (as many as you want). Coaches change schools and take their "recruiting" lists with them or share them with other coaches. DON'T BLOW-OFF ANYONE. Respond with a letter or e-mail leting them know your interest and fillout that questionairre ASAP.
3. Call, Call, Call. You can call every coach you want. This does not violate NCAA rules. A phone call to the coach is
THE BEST WAY to start your relationship with the schools you're intersted in. Coaches can't call you back however until July of the summer between your junior and senior year.
4. Start the NCAA Clearing House registration process.
5. Consider a skills video (short - no more than 5 minutes. It's like a "virtual showcase". Post it on YouTube then when you get contacted you can let the school know about your video. (Before making your video check out others on YouTube - Try searching the term NCSA).
6. It is never to early for you to draw attention to yourself. Research the schools you might even be remotely in. Look at the athletic websites of the schools and fillout those questionarres. The more the better.
Never forget that the best thing you can do is reply to a coach. You never know when or if they might take a job at a school you do like. It's OK to tell them that their school doesn't fit your needs but you appreciate their interest. For those you like, get on the phone. Introduce yourself, tell them you received their information and ask if their is anything they would like from you. If you talk to an answering machine then leave a message. Tell them who you are and why you are calling. Tell them you will try calling again then follow through.
Hope of of this is helpful.