CoachIU26.....
Nobody is condemning coaches, and don't use your reply as an excuse/reason. I have been on these boards for over 5 years, before the "crash", the website shutdown, and a few other events. Since we only have a few weeks left in this fine season, maybe it's time for me to say a few things that some people don't want to heart, bad and good.
Some coaches are under the illusion that they are the know-it-all-of baseball. Yes, some have played at various levels, high school to possibly the pros. But, when a coach tells the parents at the beginning of freshman year that they will teach our sons everything there is to know about baseball (we were also told that we didn't have to spend any money on private training, lessons, whatever, and that they could do other sports), what do you think those families did? Yep, you guessed it, they had those kids take lessons!!!! Why, because the parents didn't have dillusions-of-grandieur! They knew that if their son was to get better, play on the team, maybe even be a starter, that he needed to work at everything, strength, conditioning, mechanics, eating habits, everything.
Don't even ask me what he thought about kids who played travel ball. God forbide these kids should play more baseball, AND BE INVOLVED IN GAME SITUATIONS!!!!! Nope, they were going to teach them everything.
Whoops, I almost forgot a small factoid, POLITICS! I know a kid who can't even turn a double play and was all-conference. Must be a nice kid!
CoachIU26, I'm not writing this to 'blast' you or any coach, all we want as parents is honesty. Don't build a kids hopes up by telling him that if he limits his summer ball pitching, that he will have a good chance of pitching next season, only to ride the bench his senior year. He throws hard, is quite, has a great family, and is a good student who abides by all of the rules.
That's just plan wrong. The coach would have been more humane if would have 'cut' him at the beginning of the season. Yeah, I know you need a "taxi squad" for your starters.
As for college money, I totally agree with you, and have seen in recent years kids blowing great opportunities only to fall pray to drugs, alcohol and bad grades. Dedication and love of the game, sorry but some kids have been given false hope. Maybe that's why some coaches won't help their players get into a college program. Maybe it's bad karma, or something. I don't know the answer.
Yes, some parents expect way too much from coaches, especially the ones who want to be politically connected, yet some coaches don't really understands what it means for kids to play ball in college, or beyond. More communication is needed, between both parties, and parents can't expect the coaches to put every kid on their teams.
CoachIU26, if you are a coach, you have a tough job and I respect what you do. I may not always agree with things, but I respect what you do!
Boomer
Any solutions out there?