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I just received this email, and thought of a good place to share it with you. EH


Two Choices

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
same choice?

At a fund raising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled
children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would
never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its
dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by
outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my
son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand
things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my
son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe that when a child like Shay,
physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity
to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other
people treat that child."

Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew
were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?"
Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay
on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed
to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some
confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not
expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I
guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on
a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in
his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the
bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still
behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and
played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was
obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from
ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the

ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases
loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be
next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win
the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit
was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat
properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that
the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life,
moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make
contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The
pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards
Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground
ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and
could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have
been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head,
out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams
started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had
Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the
baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath,
Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to
the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder
had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first
chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the
second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so
he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's
head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay , Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him
by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third!
Shay, run to third!"

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home,
stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam
and won the game for his team.

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
"the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
into this world".

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never
forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home
and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!


A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least
fortunate amongst them.
Instead of jail which will probably ruin the lives of his entire family who were not at fault the guy should be wearing a ankle braclet at home on a work release program and be required to pay a huge restitution from his salary to an autistic charity. Prison instills an "out of sight out of mind" mentality while the "scarlet letter" approach reminds us of expected social behavior.
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RZ- I understand the sentiment but I think his family may be better off with him in jail. If this guy had the mind to do this in the first place, what do you think the atmosphere is in his home? I doubt that this guy goes anywhere without this following him. Knowing a little something about prisons, he will be one of the lowest rungs on the social ladder inside, that should stick with him a long time.
Justice?

My father is a judge & I know of several murders/rapists who have plead out and gotten less than 1-6 years. As such, I tend to think our courts are a bit leinent, but..

An 8YO hits a kid with two thrown baseballs from 20 feet during warm ups and the guy who instigated it gets 1-6 years?

And the guys 3 young kids who no longer have a father & his family no longer has an income. Yes, those kids & mom will be much better off with dad in jail. My understanding is that there is no history of violence or abuse in the mans background.

Let the guy survive 6 years in jail with criminals & come out with his felony convictions and try to get a job. I wouldn't be shocked if this causes the guy to turn to a life of crime.

Remember it's an 8YO throwing the balls, not the man. The other kid was not phyiscally injured beyond being shook up. There is now a family of 3 young childern who are going to need to sell their house, move into government subsidized housing and live off welfare. There is a relatively young man whose chances of a life as a potentially productive memeber of society are nearly over.

Was he an idiot & does he deserve punishment? Absolutly, but I feel that justice would have been better served with probation and say 1000 hours public service working with autistic childern.

It is my opinion that this was a vidictive punishment well beyond what was called for by the crime.
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If this guy had the mind to do this in the first place, what do you think the atmosphere is in his home?

DelDad,

I don't think it would be fair to judge him or his family without knowing them. I've heard and seen many things from moms/dads in the stands that were very spontaneous, out of character, and unwarranted in a competitive atmosphere but have then turned around seen those same people live very charitable everyday lives. In no way am I condonning his actions but I'm saying that we as a society we need to think about resolution. Sometimes mental and financial punishment is a better fit for society, and it also addresses some economic issues we face within the judicial system. This is from the mouth of a capital punishment supporter.
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I have seen the same from the stands. This mans thoughts and words turned to action. He also involved other children in his criminal action. Further, based on the news story he showed no remorse and after being found guilty did not even apologize at his allocution.
Had he been contrite and remorseful I would be with you, until then sit in jail and think about it.
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Further, based on the news story he showed no remorse and after being found guilty did not even apologize at his allocution


I don't pretend that I've followed the story all that closely to know what evidence was presented.

I do believe the quote I saw attributed to the man was "I didn't do nothing." (sic). Perhaps it was a protestaion of innocence rather than lack of remores (I didn't do nothing wrong.).

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