Our dilemma for our son was this and I am sure this happens. He went to a JR college first year as he wanted to play division 1 baseball. He took all the hard classes the first year so transcript was good and 3.5 So after a standout year he had several schools wanting him as a sophmore. When USC came calling it was one of many but his Jr coach did not want him leaving after one year.USC is a good school and for my son a great school he would not of attended without baseball and scholarship money.
When it came time to pick a major although all his credits transferred in certain degrees the requirements were different . It would of taken him at least 4.5 years or 5 to pick up a BUSINESS degree or some others.
So given that his school was being covered by school money and his senior year financial aid as my husband was forced into retirement we wanted him to have a degree from this school and not have to pay 28 or 56000 to get a different degree as that would of not been covered.
We did not want him to walk away from USC with no degree and could no way afford more time there. He needed to get done in four years. Baseball was tough and the coach that was fired because he demanded more time than legal by rules was making it very difficult on many players.
So my son got a degree in liberal arts. So many things go into the decisions and when baseball is the dream you do what you do.
I told my son he could get a master's degree at a state school for for almost same price as a fifth year at usc. So he got a sociology degree.
Yes it wasn't a great degree but he worked his a ss off for it at a difficult academic a school and employees respect a degree from a good school and the fact he played division 1 baseball.
A company called athletes to business contacted him though linkedin . They place athletes that company's want their work ethic and competitiveness. They get them past the phone interviews and 100 000 of resumes and right in the face of the hiring managers.
My son interviewed with some great companies with them and took a job in a sales training program and is doing well. He likes sales and believes he can do well. He is beginning some business classes in the fall and wants to earn his masters degree.
His degree from a good school does open doors once through those doors you have to sell yourself. I think he will be a very successful business man because he never settles for mediocrity.
I share this only to help other parents. Many ways to define success.
My daughter got a psychology degree as she wanted to be a therapist and is on social media director for the VIETNAM vets and is getting a digital media cert from Georgetown. She has worked her way up and enhanced her degree.
Not everyone can or want
be Dr lawyers,engineers, etc many kids don't know what they really want.
I agree with your general premise and in this economy it's tough.
Successful people will be successful if they have the drive and will to be.
My husband was a blue color worker his entire life and college wasn't encouraged from his parents.my husband is very intelligent. He gave us a very good life and put both our kids through college. We got them to be able to earn a degree and on its up to them to make things happen. They will because they are strong well rounded people who work hard.