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Originally posted by Michael S. Taylor:
TR:
I don't care what the level is, umpires should not instruct players. When my son was playing LL we had a guy that insisted on trying to "help" the kids. Most hated it, they didn't want to hear from the umpire during the game.
I politely disagree. It's been a while, but in the LL games I've done, there was some light inst. And the coaches/fans appreciated it ... and told me so. The greatest compliment I've ever heard is: "I can tell you really enjoy working with kids". Even better than "good job blue" (which you only hear if their team won anyway).
ALL umpires need to develop a philosophy. Mine is each and every kid is my hero. Playing sports and learning how to deal with disappointment AND victory. That's what life dishes out; and these kids are then better prepared for it. What you are trying to say is you're there just to officiate and be invisible. While that is true; you can still be a member of society and offer some help occasionally.
Sure, I've seen guys over do it; "coach" I should say. It was all about them and it was clear to see.
But there are those of us who, after the game, would talk to the coach and tell him/her that "#7 drops his shoulder alot at the plate". When I've done that, much appreciation comes my way. If you don't, I do not fault you because you are right as well. No, I don't do it often at all. So please don't say it's wrong of me as well. It's a matter of philosophy. But remember, you can pick any given game situation you've been in and say that would be wrong. True. There has been times when I felt like addressing a player, and knew the game situation wouldn't fit. I adapt.