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I've been down, sick ... a little lately. I explain life to my kids (classroom and playing field) as "peaks and valleys." When you're down get your head up a peak is coming and when you're on that peak, keep in mind to stay even keeled because your going to find a valley. I just received an email from a former player. He played ball for me so long ago that he started his email with "you probably don't remember me." (Like I could forget a player even after 21 years!) He said he'd looked for sometime for my email address because I no longer am at the school where he played. He started telling me about just getting back from Afganistan. PLEASE, KEEP THE POLITICS OUT OF THIS! He had to leave family and friends and he said his mission was terrible. He thought that the zone he was in was "forgotten" by all of us and that it was very intense. The next thing he put in that email is all of the "baseball stories." He said he became the story teller for his unit telling Coach B stories. WOW, PUTS A LUMP IN MY THROAT. When ever we start thinking we don't make a difference we need to rethink! In his words, those stupid stories got a lot of us through. I started thinking about those "stories." Really, they are those dugout moments. We all have them. For all of you coaches out there, the next time you run into one of these moments, take a look around and enjoy those kids. You never know where that kid will be in a year or two!

"Failure depends upon people who say I can't."  - my dad's quote July 1st, 2021.  CoachB25 = Cannonball for other sites.

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I had to go get my girl from middle school volleyball and didn't get to add that in those days when coaching that young man, I was an assistant coach. It was easier to joke around then. Sometimes I'm envious of my assistant who also once played for me. Now, he is the me of old. That relationship was very special with the kids. Now as the head coach, I don't get to have that bond in that way. I look at my assistant coach now and get a kick out of it because he has that special bond where the kids can have fun and not worry about the old man.
CoachB - I hope that you felt honored by your player's memories. I suspect that many coaches (including former coaches of my kids) may not recognize all the wonderful ways they touch their player's lives. It's easy for a coach to feel like he's running up hill I think thanks to one or two habitually negative parents. Coaches, for the most part, do what they do because they care about their players and have a passion for the game... without much recognition or financial compensation.

I'm thankful for each and every coach that's touched my family. We've been so very blessed in the ways they've touched my kid's lives! Thanks to each and every one of them for the wonderful memories!!

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