Larry,
Very good question, and as a coach in the past I understand the feelings and mixed emotion you have with letting the players go.
First, I do not believe the answer is a general one, it must be handled individually.
A. I believe each player has to understand the benefits of going. I spend a lot of time with each player, their parents, and their coach before I ask them to participate.
B. I believe the event has to help them improve their chances to play college baseball. As part of Most Valuable Player, I provide each player with an in-depth evaluation on what they are good at, what they need to improve on, and provide them with items they can do to reduce their weaknesses.
C. For the rising seniors, I contact college coaches on each players behalf, but I will only do it where I truly believe the player can play.
D. My approach with each player for the week is to improve the player's game mentally. I want the players to gain confidence in themselves individually and help them establish a bit of baseball arrogance (not to be confused with ignorance) to become the best player they can possibly be.
I understand your point, especially when you consider the word commitment, but as a coach and as a teacher, I sure you will agree we are here to do what is best for the kids.
Larry, I want you to know the only reason I do what I do is because I believe I will work hard at making kids better, with the hopes of creating a life changing experience.
Thank you for this opportunity,
Al McCormick
www.mostvaluableplayer.biz(410) 721-4203